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Anyone else regret visiting prostitutes?

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#1 · (Edited)
Having this sense of guilt hitting me lately about my experiences with prostitutes years back.

I have been in normal relationships since but sometimes find it difficult to deal with my past. In my circle, my friends do it sometimes, it is considered normal. However, I bring different values from before.

Anyone dealing with the same thing? I enjoyed the control and power money brought and meant in that context. Visiting prostitutes is rarely about sex, in my opinion.

Most people would never know by looking at me, not the predator type.
Questioning myself more and more these days.
 
#2 ·
Regret? If u did something wrong to them, sure. If not ..? Were they "free agents" or they had a pimp? If they weren't forced, i don't see a problem. It's a transaction.

I hire male escorts from time to time, when i'm single. It's cool to tell anyone, "do this, don't do that". But always consensual, sure.
 
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#5 ·
I visited an escort once. Weirdly I didn't cum. I had to masturbate right after. So I ended up having buyer's remorse. Plus she was white which I thirsted over but I think she wasn't attracted to me so she did it without any enthusiasm. The regret I had is I should've tried a latino escort cause they're more into Indians, would've got my monies worth.

I wish they legalized it in the US. All these gun crimes from incels would end. Fucking police state. The more I think about it, the more I realise Europe is so much better than the US if you can cross the language barrier.

In the US, massage parlours are the best bang for your buck. Escorts are risky and expensive, strip clubs give you blue balls. I bet massage parlours in Europe would be a waste of money unless that's your thing.
 
#7 ·
You can't change the past, move on and be grateful you grew as a person to the point where you no longer feel the need to walk this path
 
#8 ·
Why, may I ask do people feel the necessity to pay for sex. You don’t need a laptop or a smartphone, available sexual partners are everywhere. Doesn’t matter your age or sexuality, there is a woman in her 50’s working in a convenience store looking for sex, a guy who delivers your packages who is looking for sex, a younger woman in her 20s who bags your groceries is looking for sex. Doesn’t matter your age, your sexuality, your economic status or your color, there is someone out there who is interested in hooking up. You just have to open your eyes. No need to pay for sex, you have bills to be concerned with. A smile, a short conversation and you would be amazed just how easy it is to find. Put your wallet away guys, It’s free and it is out there.
 
#12 ·
Theres not much difference between paying a hooker or trying to find sex through tinder, in the end you are just lusting for sex while the other person is giving you their consent.
Ofc some women are only living as prostitutes because they need the money which leads them to some vulnerability, but in the end you should only regret it and feel bad for yourself if you treated them (the sex workers) badly or abused them somehow, but if that was not the case just forget about the past and move on.
 
#19 ·
I wouldn’t waste any more time thinking ? about it.
It’s like feeling guilty about watching porn etc.
Just about everyone has done it.
Unless you are some religious zealot, but even then you are forgiven of your past sins.
 
#28 · (Edited)
Yes, I used to go to prostitutes, and I still regret it. It doesn't seem normal that I spent money receiving pleasure with a girl I didn't even know. Maybe I grew up, and I understand that emotions must persist during sex. Now I would not go to prostitutes anymore. Anyway, I don't have a girlfriend now, but I find another way to get pleasure. I regularly go to adult massage London and receive much more pleasure than from prostitutes. It is a formidable massage in which I feel mega relaxed, and I always reach the maximum pleasure point, the orgasm.
 
#31 ·
I would highly recommend you to get it over with a sex worker specially if you can get a medium priced escort specially if its legal. That would cost you 200 to 300 USD for an hour in the States.

After you do it for the first time, you become far more attractive to women. They can smell it off you that you got laid and they want to get it too. When you dont get laid women can sense that you're not getting it and that turns them off.

Forget the stigma, if you hire sex workers to alleviate your carnal needs you automatically become more attractive to civilian women. Its funny how that works.
 
#34 ·
Prostitutes are whatever, porn is something I regret, especially because you get into the shit when you're too young and fucks up your brain forever.
Never got addicted and managed to quit it, but still I would have much preferred to never get the taste of it.
 
#39 ·
Monfed, just because I think you’re a loser, an idiot, a dummy, and a creep doesn’t mean I hate all Indians. I’ve never viewed brown people as less than white. Your country has awful, intractable problems but that’s the fault of the brits. Make no mistake: YOU are awful. All the other Indians I’ve met have been fine.
 
#41 · (Edited)
"All the other Indians that I've met." The ones that you've met probably bow their neck at you. The ones like me that don't bow and certainly will never hang out with a Trump loving racist white trash like you.
Your obsession of me and India is creepy.
Let's be clear - Youre the fringe in America and the racist orange face baboon that you worship got you out of your basement. Kindof like Fed's Wim 19 choke released the cesspool of fakertards like you, the filthy underbelly of tennis, in GM.
 
#54 ·
I never visited a prostitute. I would be that person who has a conversation over a cup of coffee.

But I do support sex workers as they are very important for any society. The current mayor of Amsterdam wants to get rid of 'De Wallen', unaware of the fact this will automatically lead to more (sexual) abuse.
 
#57 ·
Amsterdam and Hamburg (with its famous Reeperbahn district) are well-known having attracted criminal elements and ongoing feeling of insecurity + a drug problem, all this due to their prostitution districts. Whether this could be avoided without prostitution is a matter of approach, not a matter of choice.
As much as I am a hardliner for drug liberalization, am not supporting a strict sex work containment, still the current situation is not good for anyone.

There is an ongoing surge by some financial institutions (more concrete: by some credit card companies) to further discriminate sex workers and further limit their digital platforms, at least in the USA, where most of such platforms operate. It is highly alarming that even in such supposedly well-off first world countries like USA, Canada and Australia many young women choose sex work, even if not in direct forms like prostitution or striptease/topless dancing in bars, but online caming and fetish work, or BDSM services.
 
#61 ·
I regret not using prostitutes while on vacation after divorce, just couldn't get past that moral dilemma, some in SA were drop dead gorgeous, but instead I dated many women , and wasted tons of $ before meeting someone worth while again , if I could go back in time, I'd have no regrets :yeah: