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I get SO frusterated with people who don't just say how they feel, or what is on their mind...
For example I had a roomate all of first year in residence. ALL year I asked her if my late night habbits etc bothered her, and for SEVEN months she told me it was all good
Well 4 weeks before we move out
her freind tells me that I'm rude and inconsiderate for all the things I do that keep my roomate awake, and that I should think of her needs to 
I basically told the girl that she could eat it
since she didn't know my side of the story, and she didn't even know what my habbits were since she didn't live with me.
I was actually really quite hurt, but I'm rather bull headed and don't admit when I'm hurt by something.
My point is that it drives me so mad :fiery: You don't get what you want in life unless you ask for it, work for it, take it etc -
Keeping things to yourself when you could make things better for you by just opening your mouth, is taking the long way around
I think that I spend way to much time trying to understand why people don't think like me
But seriously, I'm so confused 
I get SO frusterated with people who don't just say how they feel, or what is on their mind...
For example I had a roomate all of first year in residence. ALL year I asked her if my late night habbits etc bothered her, and for SEVEN months she told me it was all good
Well 4 weeks before we move out
I basically told the girl that she could eat it
I was actually really quite hurt, but I'm rather bull headed and don't admit when I'm hurt by something.
My point is that it drives me so mad :fiery: You don't get what you want in life unless you ask for it, work for it, take it etc -
Keeping things to yourself when you could make things better for you by just opening your mouth, is taking the long way around
I think that I spend way to much time trying to understand why people don't think like me