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Do people create their own averages based on experience?

  • Yes, stats are worthless, its all about who you have been with

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I always see people post charts about the countries who have the larger penis sizes etc.

Not so many charts on sexual performance, though google says most men last between 4-6 mins on average.

My point is, isnt it going to matter whom you have been with that dictates your average?

I mean, if a girl has been with 10 guys who only lasted like 4-10 mins, if you come alone and put in 20, youll be a god to her. However, if she had been with 2 or 3 marathon men who lasted an hour, you wont be so impressive. Same deal with penis size.

For me averages are an indicator and nothing more.

How do you see it?

I know us guys put ourselves in this position by going on and on about penis size etc. We contribute to the paranoia with our exagerations and lies no doubt.

I am confident and dont worry toooo much, but I just wonder how ladies and gents see this.

I also think that in the same way as magazines and celebrities make women feel they need to obtain an unrealistic body image, pornographic films give males (and females) a totally unrealistic expectation of what sex should be like.

Yes, porn can be shot in multiple sessions, but that doesnt matter. They are professionals. They should be good at it. People cant and shouldnt compare themselves to it. But I think we do sometimes. That would be like watching a NFL player kick a 60 yard place kick, and you being gutted cause you can "only" kick one from 35 yards, which is still more than most could do.
 

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Sometimes i wonder does making polls actually helps you get off?
 

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Who cares? I mean personally the best sex I've had has been with girls who I have loved for who they are, not how 'good' they are.
 

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Who cares? I mean personally the best sex I've had has been with girls who I have loved for who they are, not how 'good' they are.
Same here, but its that easy for us guys.

Female orgasms cAn be a little more complex.
 

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I am waiting for Bilbo to come and lay the smackdown on this thread.
 

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I think for most women they think of it more in terms of their own self esteem than trying to make any kind of evaluation of the guy's performance.

It would be some annoying woman who evaluates every man based on his penis size and how long he can last for. Plus, if you put the groundwork in beforehand then you might not even need to last very long.

Sure most women would appreciate a guy who's just generally quite attentive rather than a guy who can last for an hour each time.
 

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I think for most women they think of it more in terms of their own self esteem than trying to make any kind of evaluation of the guy's performance.

It would be some annoying woman who evaluates every man based on his penis size and how long he can last for. Plus, if you put the groundwork in beforehand then you might not even need to last very long.

Sure most women would appreciate a guy who's just generally quite attentive rather than a guy who can last for an hour each time.
I dunno, id hope so, but for most young girls it seems to be all about inches
 
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I agree, its all about the inches and the width and how hard the dick gets inside the girl's tight pussy, yes i kno:angel:
Don't beat around the bush or anything :rolleyes:

I think it's a mistake to view sex in such a way that intercourse itself is where battles are won and lost.
 

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Don't beat around the bush or anything :rolleyes:

I think it's a mistake to view sex in such a way that intercourse itself is where battles are won and lost.
sheesh im jus trying to be honest, its how girls think these days:shrug:

i would want that too it shouldnt be a problem for girls to want what they want:cool:

intercourse is more than jus sex, its something that you feel and lust for when you experience it with your partner
 

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I'm only big in one area: disappointment
 
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I've found the magic potion for lasting as long as your want in bed. It's herbal and legal in most countries. I don't know if it's a psychological thing but when I'm on it, I consciously have to make an effort to finish. I discovered it purely on accident and I thought this was going to be my secret to landing any girl I wanted. But even though I have this to fall back on, I don't think it has made me any happier. I'm still really bad at picking up girls and even worse at securing a relationship. I mean you can't just pick up a girl by walking up to her and telling her that you can last hours in bed while medicated. I've had somehow managed to land two different sexual partners while using this drug and neither of them turned into any relationship. On top of that I'm now afraid to try sex without using the drug. Magic potions are not really magic potions at all. Girls are complicated and I believe sexual performance is extremely overrated when it comes down to it.
 

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I only enjoy cuddling so I can't comment anything of use in this fantastic thread.
 

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But lemme say this as a non-virgin like myself, i expect a guy to know what he is doing and to give a woman what she wants, if i want you to pound my pussy than do it, if you wanna do crazy tricks that will satisfy your womans desires than go for it. Sex is love and happiness that can mean in so many different ways, some people do it for fun, some people do it for love some people jus do it for other reasons, so of course the sexual performance is the most important thing to sex.

So for example if a guy says that he will rock your world in bed and give you the shotgun of your life, what does a woman who loves sex and gets horny on a daily basis think of him, that hes gonna go for the bang bang and make her go on top of the world and give her the satisfaction that she expects from the guy, but when hes about to have sex with you and he gives you the beginners treatment and not know what a 69 is and not know how to pound a girl in the ass than that guy is nothing but full of shit in a cats clothing, he doesnt know how to have sex, he doesnt know how to please you, hes jus full of blah blah talk and dogshit in her ears:rolleyes:

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Thats how most girls are in US, its crazy but its so true im sure there some others around the world who feel the same.
 
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