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Old 05-21-2014, 03:34 AM   #16
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I reckon I have a fairly poor social life, I meet sometimes with the people I've known all over my life, so Im not the type of guy who has 500 different types of friends just because they happen to meet with me at the gym or in any other casual activity. It seems women seem to be turned off by men who doesnt seem well respected or supported by a large social-circle or who doesnt scream out as being extremely interesting and having interesting activities integrated into their lifestyles.

It doesnt matter how goodlooking you are, it seems that women are able to overlook for the physical appearance when It comes about social-circle and lifestyle, being popular and socially active/respected seem to be more important for them nowadays.

Again I'm not saying Im socially awkward or retarded but Im far from being the extremely outgoing, popular person who has a huge social circle of friends.
They may think you are not interested in them.. Be direct and if you like a woman, compliment her and be nice.. If you like one a lot bring her a simple present or even write her a letter.. There are many women who like private and introvert guys..
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Old 05-21-2014, 04:25 AM   #17
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They may think you are not interested in them.. Be direct and if you like a woman, compliment her and be nice.. If you like one a lot bring her a simple present or even write her a letter.. There are many women who like private and introvert guys..
WIsh it were that easy. It's as hard to fight against your nature, and eventually go out from the comfort zone.
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Women have a vary narrow and bland taste in men.

Men love all kinds of women, by this I don't mean every man loves every type of woman, but men's taste in general hugely vary some some men like extroverted women, some men like introverted women, some men like BBW [LOL] and some men like women of different races.

Most women ONLY like men who fit one sort of narrow archetype and no other. And being confident and extroverted is one of those qualities unless you're so good looking that you don't even have to open your mouth.
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Depends how thick your neck is.
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Depends how thick your neck is.
hit the nail on the neck.
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Oh, no, I love when I don't have to hang out with other people. Give me my man, a movie and popcorn and I am the happiest woman in the world
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Oh, no, I love when I don't have to hang out with other people. Give me my man, a movie and popcorn and I am the happiest woman in the world
As long as your man has a thick neck right?
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Oh, no, I love when I don't have to hang out with other people. Give me my man, a movie and popcorn and I am the happiest woman in the world
Where can I find women like you?
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Where can I find women like you?
They exist I tend to only be attracted by those
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I tend to agree with you, but I'm one of those people who have a hard time to recognize they would really love to have a more interesting social life and specially meet more women ( I have had couple of gf on the past) but thats has been too few and far in between to fulfill my desires.
Well, those two are definitely connected, you can't meet anyone if you don't have a social life in the first place, where are you going to meet them?
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In terms of sexual attraction, women are no different then men on that field. We all fantasize about ideal someone, often in very stereotypical manner but in a very layman-specific way, which truly harms one particular judgement of what to expect . I suggest you read S.Freud , on what are sexual attractions based upon .

But to be on the track. Answer to OP question is - NO. Different people made different experience in their life, which in case shape their character. However, finding girl on similar life qualities like yours is close to impossible . Basic interaction is very much needed. And only way to compasate is through socialisation. One good thing internet provides is one such way. Then again, futile if you do not communicate both visually and emotionally. That is an advice.

Socialisation is needed to form your stance , appearance and above all self-confidence. You can't make a move on a girl without any clear attention, but also be enough subtle or they would see it as aggressive and utterly revolting stance. But the latter one is mostly based on particular character so don't hold me on that. Instead USE socialisation in form of interaction, so you FIND actual correct way of "seducing" , sorry to be so blunt.

All that, WITHOUT losing your core character in process, so you stay true to yourself and what can she expect from you. All this simple advice.
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Oh, no, I love when I don't have to hang out with other people. Give me my man, a movie and popcorn and I am the happiest woman in the world
I think you'll find this does not contradict the main idea of the topic.

What you are describing is yourself and not the man you would be attracted to.
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I think you'll find this does not contradict the main idea of the topic.

What you are describing is yourself and not the man you would be attracted to.
Aye, we agree. Sexual appetise is limited to an individual objectiveness , but cannot be categorised , at least not objectively. What we can categorise and to somewhat objective stand is individual character based only on repeated behavioral patterns, and often that character and sexual appearance are in heavy conjecture . That need for sexual drive is instinct, however after long set of time modern human today is able to understand such urges and suppress based on general social acceptance in various groups.
What we cannot control are urges that stay on subconscious level , raw form of instinct .


My point being, those thing have permanent effect on our judgement in those instances . Its hard to make objective definition and draw distinctive pattern on how one will react. So thee only way you can gain knowledge is trough direct socialisation with given individual . And such interaction need both emotions and visual contact.
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