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Old 09-09-2014, 11:35 PM   #1
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I stop being into girls like a day, two, or a month. I stopped asking for dates since ages and only laid I get is if some drunk girl is eager to get pipe cleaned with some random guy next to her on hard rock concert. I was never into homosex stuff but who knows what future brings. I dont like animals as well and I dont want to go into a details here. Only thing I like and makes me happy are HQ porn with well known divas. So does this makes me asexual persona or I should just visit shrink. Pls mods dont close this thread its not trolling just something I cant keep it in my self any more further, btw, I dont have any friends (not even on MTF). Please word of comfort and help would be nice dont make my conditions even worse. Plus Im writing this while on sleeping pills so there maybe a lots of mistakes dont have nerves to check. I am really desperate.
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... okay. I will assume not trolling, first. If you cannot sleep and are taking sleeping pills, and don't have any (really?) friends, a "shrink" as you put it, would do you well, definitely recommend, asap.

On the other hand, obligatory AVEN linky. You haven't said anything about "not experiencing sexual attraction" and by the way you have written that post (and my own experiences with aces), I find it pretty unlikely that you fit *that* mold, but, maybe you do. Good luck.
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... okay. I will assume not trolling, first. If you cannot sleep and are taking sleeping pills, and don't have any (really?) friends, a "shrink" as you put it, would do you well, definitely recommend, asap.

On the other hand, obligatory AVEN linky. You haven't said anything about "not experiencing sexual attraction" and by the way you have written that post (and my own experiences with aces), I find it pretty unlikely that you fit *that* mold, but, maybe you do. Good luck.
Thanks for the link. I really dont care for random girls I meet somehow I always act cold to them and thats basically enough to turn em off. I m no trying to hit in pubs and clubs usually just drinking few beers and Im packing myself home. Btw. Only sexual stimulation I get is when watching regular porn
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Watch straight porn, if a tent is built, you're straight.

If not, watch gay porn, if a tent is built, you're gay.

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Asexual means you are basically void of any sexual stimulation.

I guarantee you that if you got a hand job or blow job from a girl you would be turned on.

At the same time maybe you wouldn't.

You need to say more for any of us to help.
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Stop watching porn all together.
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You might be depressed, m8. Or extremely stressed.

There's something more to this.
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I wouldn't rule it out just yet.

It may be when you turn middle aged that you develop thirst for minors?
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Asexual means you are basically void of any sexual stimulation.
No. Not necessarily. Being sexually functional, capable of receiving stimulus and identifying as asexual aren't incompatible. OP, just skim AVEN for a while.

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You might be depressed, m8. Or extremely stressed.

There's something more to this.
yep. Could always be depression (or any other random medical reason, really). Again, I strongly recommend professional help.

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I wouldn't rule it out just yet.

It may be when you turn middle aged that you develop thirst for minors?
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Asexual means you are basically void of any sexual stimulation.

I guarantee you that if you got a hand job or blow job from a girl you would be turned on.

At the same time maybe you wouldn't.

You need to say more for any of us to help.
Last 4-5 times maybe I was fully hard just in 2 times and after 15-20 mins. In the same time I avoided sex because I did not feel any kind of sexual attraction/tension.

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You might be depressed, m8. Or extremely stressed.

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This is true mate, it definitely has some effect on my emotional and sexual life.

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Stop watching porn all together.
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Sound more like asocial than asexual How old are you, what do you do (work, student, etc)?
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Sound more like asocial than asexual How old are you, what do you do (work, student, etc)?
I am 23, student. Im am in touch with a lot of people, I can always find someone with who I can go to street basketball, to tennis, on coffees but those are mostly acquaintances and actually out of all of them maybe one, or two i can call a real friend.
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I am 23, student. Im am in touch with a lot of people, I can always find someone with who I can go to street basketball, to tennis, on coffees but those are mostly acquaintances and actually out of all of them maybe one, or two i can call a real friend.
Well, you still have plenty of time to figure out what you want, not sure why you should be pressing it right now? If you don't feel like going out or dating, then just don't, give it a break, do other things you like doing. And lay off the sleeping pills, there's absolutely no reason why you should be using such things.
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Well, you still have plenty of time to figure out what you want, not sure why you should be pressing it right now? If you don't feel like going out or dating, then just don't, give it a break, do other things
I'll try to sort it out like this, hope it helps. Thanks

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And lay off the sleeping pills, there's absolutely no reason why you should be using such things.
Well lately I am feeling so anxious I am just spinning in bed and I cant catch the sleep till 4 am - 5am and feeling is good so relaxed like I am leaving the body lol. I really hope I'll be able to drop it off
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Well lately I am feeling so anxious I am just spinning in bed and I cant catch the sleep till 4 am - 5am and feeling is good so relaxed like I am leaving the body lol. I really hope I'll be able to drop it off
Well, then just don't sleep till 5am lol. If you don't have to get up early for work or school, it's still fine. Getting hooked up on those things is never a good thing. People take pills these days way too easily.
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