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Old 03-19-2013, 05:04 PM   #1
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What is it that You look for in a Relationship with your Partner?

Love and Understanding or Sex?

According to me, Love and Understanding forms the Basis of a Relationship whereas Sex can be termed as a Leisure and Pleasure.
Or You have any other Need?


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Old 03-19-2013, 05:22 PM   #2
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In my opinion the most important thing to build a relationship is love and understanding but this has to go with a good sexual relationship. Sex shouldn't be the most important thing in a common relationship but if sex is the most important thing it is better not to have a "serious" relationship as sex doesn't build any relationship as we are thinking about in this thread. I mean, in my opinion someone can look only for sex and that's not something bad but if someone wants love and understanding he/she will probably need to have a good sexual relationship with his/her partner. And one last thing: I'm not saying to have a sexual relationship with your partner, I'm saying to have a good sexual relationship with you partner. Maybe is not the most romantic thing that someone can say but in my opinion it is something important but not the most important thing if someone wants to find someone to share with his/her partner some time of your life (or maybe the rest of your life).

In short, relationship is built in love and understanding but sex in a relationship is important too (we have to admit that) but not as strong as love and understanding. Sex doesn't build a relationship.
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Love and understanding.

If you're just looking for sex relationships aren't for you.
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Love and understanding.

If you're just looking for sex relationships aren't for you.
im searching someone like you

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Love and understanding.

If you're just looking for sex relationships aren't for you.
This rarely happens, but I agree with Josh on this one.
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We'd be lying if sex wasn't part of it.

But just as important if not more is trust and love. When you find the right girl, you know. Everything she does, you love. When you look into her eyes, you look into her soul and the feeling that envelops you, you know she is the one.

She is ambitious, smart, funny, a little clumsy sure, but aren't we all? A girl who is into the same things that you are, a girl who you would have no problem just sitting there and watching TV all night with her between you.

You love the way she looks, the way she smells, her voice is sexy, I mean, Jesus, everything. And you think to yourself, yes, she is the one. She is the one I want to marry. She is the one I want to be my wife. She is the one I want to be the mother of my children. She is the woman I want to die with.

You know you've found the one when the more girls you meet, the more you realize just how incredible your one woman is. You know you've found the one when you don't give a shit about any other woman but her
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Money. My dream marriage is a rich widow.
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how old u want her to be?
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how old u want her to be?
The older, the better.
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The older, the better.
i thought so, if she has a brother..
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Why do you need a romantic relationship with someone for love and understanding? I have my parents and a bunch of good friends for that.

Never understood the lifelong search people seem to have to find 'the right one'.
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Why do you need a romantic relationship with someone for love and understanding? I have my parents and a bunch of good friends for that.

Never understood the lifelong search people seem to have to find 'the right one'.
How do you see a sexual relationship between two people that have nothing in common, no love nor understanding for each other? That's just plain sex then, I don't need to be in a formal relationship to have that.
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Sex is not the be all and end all of a relationship, in fact too much can ruin relationship, especially if that's all you do... Relationships need to be well balanced, you need to understand your partner, and respect their wishes, as long as they respect yours.
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