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Old 09-24-2009, 07:11 PM   #1
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I'm with a girl that i like, and she kinda likes me aswell. But the thing is someone else has come in the picture, and i love that person more than i love my current gf, and i know they love me more aswell.

So anyway, what's the best way to end my relationship with my gf?
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Old 09-24-2009, 07:17 PM   #2
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first of all: people don't like each other in relationships
so, if she really only likes you, she won't be too upset

tell her it's over, only mention the other girl if your ex-gf would get to know about her anyway sooner or later
say you want to be fair and end the relationship before you cheat on her

actually you can say whatever you want, she will be upset anyway, but the way you tell or don't tell her will have an impact in the long run
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Old 09-24-2009, 07:17 PM   #3
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Do you know polygyny? If you love two girls, and they love you, there's no reason to finish with one of them
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Old 09-24-2009, 07:20 PM   #4
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Sounds like you don't know what you want.

Either be with both or neither.
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Thanks guys! . Will consider these, but no way am i gonna be with both, it's wrong.
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Old 09-24-2009, 07:24 PM   #6
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Like my last gf ended with me: by phone.
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Brutal honesty.

It hurts, but it gets the job done without any lies and twists, I guess.

Though I'm not speaking from experience so I'm probably the last one who should give advice. But since it's you Jase I thought I'd give it a try.
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Like my last gf ended with me: by phone.
xD. Not such a bad idea i must say.


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Brutal honesty.

It hurts, but it gets the job done without any lies and twists, I guess.

Though I'm not speaking from experience so I'm probably the last one who should give advice. But since it's you Jase I thought I'd give it a try.
I guess that is what i want but i don't want her to hate me

And
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She'll move on, Jase. I think she'll appreciate the fact that you were at least honest and that you didn't want to continue to live in a lie. Life doesn't stop at the end of a relationship... It would be unfair on her if you kept thinking about some other person and she didn't know.
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I guess , but it's a little more complicated than that in my situation
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I think she will hate on you because it will hurt not her feelings but her ego. (this is why several of Nathii's dates don't talk to Nathii anymore... honesty doesn't pay off at times)

You have to do this the oldest method on Earth. Make *her* dump you. Spit in her food and pretend you just made a joke of your life, start watching hardcore group anal videos and say this is what you want to do with her, get overly jealous (demand from her updates on what she's doing every half an hour and scream your ass off when she picks the phone 2 seconds too late), come drunk on the dinner with her parents etc. Ah and maybe start to gamble.

This way she won't spill the shit all over her female friends as a brutal heartbreaker and a lot of the untrue things (that's how chicks tend to behave). She will only say you're an asshole, but this could give you some easy one nite stands. Adventurous girls love the assholes.
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Tell her you're gay.
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OMG!!!! . Tho i guess that might take a while Nathii

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I Like a Kevin Smith Tweet about this issue

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man the fuck up and tell her straight up.
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