[alfonsojose]

Alfonsojose54 wants to tell Conan that was the first time and the last time. Alfonsojose54 respects Top Librarian preferences very deeply

[Frooty_Bazooty]

Denim, that was a really nice post

Alfonso,im surprised you only came out recently. From all your posts I assumed you had been out for ages cos you have a great confidence with it.

[Frooty_Bazooty]

Originally Posted by Julie

GAy female here, and i know im not the only one so im wondering where the rest are *Confused*

where's dots when u need her?

[Catsou]

Originally Posted by alfonsojose54

Alfonsojose54 wants to tell Conan that was the first time and the last time. Alfonsojose54 respects Top Librarian preferences very deeply

Alfonso you are such a sweety

About ``gaydar`` LOL I really have one..maybe I hang out too much with my gay friends but you definitly can feel the groove of someone right away....I don't really know how to explain it but when you meet someone of the opposite sex you feel a kind of a sexual attraction....when you meet gay men you don't feel that connection...from them anyway LOL

[maratski]

men don't seem to feel sexual attraction when they meet me. Does that make me a lesbian

I'm a straight female btw

[maratski]

I think I know what you mean alfonso. I never take any initiative when it comes to love and also prefer the person behind the looks. I like to look and talk about looks all the time, but I'm actually very shy and afraid to get hurt. Somehow I can't understand how people have one night stands. I can't imagine myself being with someone if I don't know him well or fully trust him.

to me you sound very normal and not silly. I recognise myself in what you say so it can't be strange

Anyway here's a

[Catsou]

Originally Posted by maratski

men don't seem to feel sexual attraction when they meet me. Does that make me a lesbian

I'm a straight female btw

HI Girl Nice to see you back Hope everything is fine!

Don't worry girl for sure they feel a sexual attraction..they just hide it well

Wear your Manolo high heel and you'll see I'm right

[maratski]

Hi girl

How are you?

I'm so out of the loop so fill me in, or come on msn

[Catsou]

Originally Posted by maratski

Hi girl

How are you?

I'm so out of the loop so fill me in, or come on msn

Je vais très bien merci et toi? Je suis contente de te voir de retour

Tu ne devrais pas t'inquièter avec les hommes! Je suis certaine que tu n'es pas du tout `` out of the loop`` comme tu le dis... Je ne peux pas aller malheureusement sur msn maintenant. Mais, on se parle bientôt sur msn d'accord ?

[maratski]

ok j'ai un thread seulement pour moi ici où on peut parler

je pense que tu travaille maintenant, mais c'est pas grave. C'est juste que je suis tellement contente pour toi et je voudrais savoir si t'es prête à partir

[alfonsojose]

Originally Posted by Frooty_Bazooty

Denim, that was a really nice post

Alfonso,im surprised you only came out recently. From all your posts I assumed you had been out for ages cos you have a great confidence with it.

Frooty. I'm happy with myself, and in a virtual forum outside of my country even more Here, it's still a tabu being gay and eveything is very closeted. Gay bars are hidden and in very dark and small places. Even here, i'm not 100% me. My name is not alfonsojose and you have no idea how frustrating is not to be able to post a pic of me. I can't take risks of people from my city coming here. I can't mention tournaments where i've played, results, (i'm not a professional, just little club tournaments at my city) can't show pics, anything, but at least i can do anything with Rainer here

[alfonsojose]

Originally Posted by maratski

I think I know what you mean alfonso. I never take any initiative when it comes to love and also prefer the person behind the looks. I like to look and talk about looks all the time, but I'm actually very shy and afraid to get hurt. Somehow I can't understand how people have one night stands. I can't imagine myself being with someone if I don't know him well or fully trust him.

to me you sound very normal and not silly. I recognise myself in what you say so it can't be strange

Anyway here's a

Thanks girl. I haven't known about U in a while. See that u are really busy right now.

[Catsou]

Alfonso you just completly broke my heart with that last post of yours

I'm happy you can do whatever you want with Rainer at least here on the forum

[maratski]

Alfonso

[alfonsojose]

Originally Posted by Catsou

Alfonso you just completly broke my heart with that last post of yours

I'm happy you can do whatever you want with Rainer at least here on the forum

Don't worry girl. I'm going to buy an apartment in a few months and there are other good things in my life.

I'm Rainer's coach, lover, friend, manager ..