I don't know how to explain rum.
It's a hard liquor like vodka or tequila or gin.
Rum with Coke is popular here in the U.S. I guess it depends on where you come from.
My favorite drink is old-fashioned from the 80s - Peach Schnappes and orange juice.
Defnitely a girlie-girl drink.
Plus I like wine...a Zinfandel.