[Mr. Oracle]

Originally Posted by Shinoj

Dealing with all that is quite Difficult to be Honest and i wouldnt blame any Guy if he eventually turns into a Fool.
But i think i need to be an Asshole . The One who doesnt think Much and just does things at the spur of the Moment. I know Girls have a Certain Thing for such Guys. The one Marlon Brando Plays in the movie "Streetcar named Desire". An Old Hollywood Movie.

But i despised such Guys all my Life and i find it hard to become like that just to get a Beautiful Woman. Its a Moral Dilemna of sorts.

I here you brotha. The "asshole technique" is another tool which belongs in every man's toolbox.

lol I just thought of the movie Magnolia....so funny, the Frank Mackey character.

[Shinoj]

Originally Posted by Mr. Oracle

I here you brotha. The "asshole technique" is another tool which belongs in every man's toolbox.

lol I just thought of the movie Magnolia....so funny, the Frank Mackey character.

. You know we are like the Lions of the Forest. We like to Laze Around. But when it is for the Kill You fuckin Know who Gets the Prey.

[Ivelina_P]

I'd repeat the same old,worn out "Be yourself"
But here's why: Not because we women are ready to jump into every dick that doesn't hesitate to show his true nature.
If you present yourself in a way that is far from reality,a woman can buy into this image for a while,but inevitably your character will show up big time.You're not going to pretend all relationship long,neither you're going to adopt the fake You that got the chick out.It's better not to make false expectaions for both of you,you should move on to more perspective coupling partners the sooner the better.

[Lemon Water]

Originally Posted by Ivelina_P

I'd repeat the same old,worn out "Be yourself"
But here's why: Not because we women are ready to jump into every dick that doesn't hesitate to show his true nature.
If you present yourself in a way that is far from reality,a woman can buy into this image for a while,but inevitably your character will show up big time.You're not going to pretend all relationship long,neither you're going to adopt the fake You that got the chick out.It's better not to make false expectaions for both of you,you should move on to more perspective coupling partners the sooner the better.

Does a woman agree to sex if i make my intentions clear looking into her eyes, speaking honest and touching her? I am just curious.

[Shinoj]

Originally Posted by Ivelina_P

I'd repeat the same old,worn out "Be yourself"
But here's why: Not because we women are ready to jump into every dick that doesn't hesitate to show his true nature.
If you present yourself in a way that is far from reality,a woman can buy into this image for a while,but inevitably your character will show up big time.You're not going to pretend all relationship long,neither you're going to adopt the fake You that got the chick out.It's better not to make false expectaions for both of you,you should move on to more perspective coupling partners the sooner the better.

So What if i want to date you for around a Month and show you off to all my Friends and then think about whether to continue with you or Not?

And if I say all this in Our First Date, WOuld You be Okay with it?

[Ivelina_P]

Originally Posted by Lemon Water

Does a woman agree to sex if i make my intentions clear looking into her eyes, speaking honest and touching her? I am just curious.

If this woman wants sex with you too,yes.
Imagine this:
You are a guy(I suppose).A girl you know not too good comes and flirts with you,showing her desire you both to fuck.What would you do?If you find the girl attractive-agree,if not-ignore her.That's same with women,we're not creatures from other dimension,Jesus.

[Ivelina_P]

Originally Posted by Shinoj

So What if i want to date you for around a Month and show you off to all my Friends and then think about whether to continue with you or Not?

And if I say all this in Our First Date, WOuld You be Okay with it?

I personally will be okay.This is a good option actually.

[Lemon Water]

Originally Posted by Ivelina_P

If this woman wants sex with you too,yes.
Imagine this:
You are a guy(I suppose).A girl you know not too good comes and flirts with you,showing her desire you both to fuck.What would you do?If you find the girl attractive-agree,if not-ignore her.That's same with women,we're not creatures from other dimension,Jesus.

Thanks. I am a shy guy and straightforward. I get nervous when asking for it on the very first conversation thinking she might feel awkward. I mean is it okay? I can't carry out endless conversations and play a rugged bad boy like some men. It makes me bored.

[Shinoj]

Originally Posted by Ivelina_P

I personally will be okay.This is a good option actually.

Oh My My.. ... Our Countries are some distance Apart Actually.

[Ivelina_P]

Lemon Water,one thing I HATE the most is when shy guys try to play some sort of Tyler Durden.I like shy guys,they can be adorable.I also like arrogant alpha-males,only if that's in their nature.
Shinoj,I can't help any further with this.

[GOAT = Fed]

Originally Posted by Shinoj

Dealing with all that is quite Difficult to be Honest and i wouldnt blame any Guy if he eventually turns into a Fool.
But i think i need to be an Asshole . The One who doesnt think Much and just does things at the spur of the Moment. I know Girls have a Certain Thing for such Guys. The one Marlon Brando Plays in the movie "Streetcar named Desire". An Old Hollywood Movie.

But i despised such Guys all my Life and i find it hard to become like that just to get a Beautiful Woman. Its a Moral Dilemna of sorts.

Correction: You don't need to be an asshole to get women.

What you do need, to get women, is a big backbone. By this I mean you don't pander to women, you stand up for yourself and your opinion and don't just agree with women in regards to everything. You don't treat women as if they're some special entity and don't treat them like princesses.

Now the reason why it may seem like women go for assholes is because most assholes do meet quite a lot of these requirements. But obviously they have other opinions as well which make them assholes. Women don't like men who bow down to them and worship them. Even if they did like it, there's no need to treat women as anything more special than a man.

[abraxas21]

Originally Posted by Sophitia36

I disagree with that. The idea that you only need to "make women laugh" to win them over is annoying in my opinion...

but i didn't say that. i said "it's mostly about self confidence and a little bit of humour here and there"

[Punky]

i dont think theres an answer to ur question, its different from a woman to a woman, not all the men are the same just like a woman.

spend time with her and see what type she is what did she like and dislike.

[Mr. Oracle]

Originally Posted by abraxas21

but i didn't say that. i said "it's mostly about self confidence and a little bit of humour here and there"

I'm sure you'll send "just a little" bit of humour the other way as well.

I'd be the luckiest guy in the world if a woman could make me laugh ALL day. To each his own. Different strokes for different folks. What's good for the goose is good for the gander..oh I don't know.

[Sophitia36]

Originally Posted by hipolymer

Best advice that can ever be given to a person. This'll get you that woman and more:

http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-...better-person/

Great article!

I love their take on the "nice guy" approach. I'm so tired of that argument, "women don't like nice guys", "they don't like me because I am too nice", "then they must prefer jerks"... One of the most often repeated misogynistic myths.
I love how clearly they explain why that approach makes no sense. Apply to yourself the same standard you apply to others. Simple as that. So-called "nice guys" don't go after a woman because she's "nice", do they? They go after her because they find her hot, or at least attractive.
Funny thing is, I've rarely seen a woman complain that it was unfair because she was a "nice girl" and didn't get attention from guys. Girls will usually whine that they are too ugly, too uninteresting, too fat... In other words, unlike men, they have been used to the idea that they are supposed to make themselves attractive to men, or else, blame it only on themselves (and what they are "inside" will matter only if they are attractive in the first place).