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Old 10-15-2011, 01:18 AM   #31
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I try and understand other people's feelings about loneliness and realize I am not alone in my loneliness, after all. Then solidarity abounds.
This. Sometimes you feel depressed and unhappy about your life and you look around and get even more depressed. Because everyone around you seems to be doing great and seems to be so sure about they want out of life. But they don't. We all struggle... The most important thing is to have the courage of changing your life when you're unhappy with it.
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Old 10-15-2011, 07:12 AM   #32
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Myself ive always personally associated loneliness with being single and/or not having many or any friends, but I understand one can feel lonely even when these things are present.

For me, I reckon my life would be as close to complete as I could hope for if I didnt have to battle loneliness all the time. I think it's one of those unique things that both males and females feel there is a lot of stigma to admitting or you feel weak admitting to it.

But what do you associate it with and how do you deal with it? Alcohol? Drugs? Hobbies? Sport? Work? Do you keep so busy you dont have time to think about it or what?

Does anyone associate it with rejection? Fear of never being able to find a life partner? I wish I could be like some people who just dont give a crap whether they have a girlfriend/boyfriend but I just cant, as hard as I try, I simply have to have one to feel content.

Its a hard thing to cope with because you feel like a loser for even mentioning it. You feel weak. Yet one assumes everyone feels it. Do you just soldier on or?
find a work first, things will start happening......sitting at home won't lead you anywhere......damn what life partner man? you are not 35 or something are you? keep trying different girls or even go find a few strippers.....never go the alcohol, drugs way no matter what......
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Try playing tennis. It's very therapeutic.

And obviously I mean real life tennis, not lame Playstation shit.
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Being single isn't all that bad.
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Every girl you have in your avatar is EXACTLY my type.

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I feel more lonely when I'm with other people; solitude is my element
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I feel lonelier when I'm in a crowd of people with whom I have nothing in common, than when I am by myself doing what I like and spending quality time with my cats. I haven't found anyone I have enough in common with yet. I am almost 48, so I know that getting married is probably not an option.
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We should always keep ourselves busy with the activities or hobby we like. This is the Best way to live life.
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