[Certinfy]

This got really weird today.

So I was kind of looking for this girl today but couldn't find her so didn't bother. Then went to my other friend to ask her about how she did in her exam and my other friend (don't know her very well though) was there. We just got talking and it led to us talking about education, her past, religion, tennis (hey, she said as a kid she wanted to be a ballgirl at Wimbledon ), work, and whatever else. I was just being myself like everyone here told me to be and I guess by being myself I didn't really think of what I was doing next rather than just asking her questions and being friendly and somewhat confident.

Now the thing here is, I won't see either her or the other girl for about 50 days, but I don't know who I should try to go for. One of them I hardly know while the other I do now but I didn't think it at the time but after our conversation I just feel she's too good for me.

No idea how this even happened, but I guess it might just be better off forgetting about both since I have to concentrate on my exams and won't see either in at least 50 days.

[BroTree123]

Don't give up now man. At least be her friend.

[Certinfy]

Well I suppose being her friend would be nice.

What I don't get is why I want to be with either though, I'm not desperate for another girlfriend and I don't even see what benefits I'll get out of it. Too much shit playing with my mind as of late.

[Johnny Groove]

Originally Posted by Certinfy

This got really weird today.

So I was kind of looking for this girl today but couldn't find her so didn't bother. Then went to my other friend to ask her about how she did in her exam and my other friend (don't know her very well though) was there. We just got talking and it led to us talking about education, her past, religion, tennis (hey, she said as a kid she wanted to be a ballgirl at Wimbledon ), work, and whatever else. I was just being myself like everyone here told me to be and I guess by being myself I didn't really think of what I was doing next rather than just asking her questions and being friendly and somewhat confident.

Now the thing here is, I won't see either her or the other girl for about 50 days, but I don't know who I should try to go for. One of them I hardly know while the other I do now but I didn't think it at the time but after our conversation I just feel she's too good for me.

No idea how this even happened, but I guess it might just be better off forgetting about both since I have to concentrate on my exams and won't see either in at least 50 days.

Eliminate the bolded mindset.

[BroTree123]

Just keep being yourself and bring out the usual charm once in a while. Whether you get her or not is irrelevant at this point. It's just to the point where she respects (and trusts) your presence and enjoys having you around

[Certinfy]

Originally Posted by Johnny Groove

Eliminate the bolded mindset.

It's hard too. This girl went to a private secondary school here and works in Hollister (and people say you have to be really good looking to work there?) so definitely she probably has a boyfriend anyway.

Originally Posted by BroTree123

Just keep being yourself and bring out the usual charm once in a while. Whether you get her or not is irrelevant at this point. It's just to the point where she respects (and trusts) your presence and enjoys having you around

Will just do that then.

[Johnny Groove]

Originally Posted by Certinfy

It's hard too. This girl went to a private secondary school here and works in Hollister (and people say you have to be really good looking to work there?) so definitely she probably has a boyfriend anyway.

Jesus Christ

This is the worst possible mindset you can possibly have, man. You will have ZERO chance to be with her if you have this mentality.

You have to believe that YOU are the prize, that YOU are the catch, that she is lucky to have a great guy like YOU, that YOU are seeing if she is worth being with YOU, not the other way around.

Besides, if she is pretty, chances are she scares off a lot of guys, chances are, many men think like you. As a result, she is lonely and single, just waiting for some guy with the balls to step up and talk to her.

[Gagsquet]

Listen Groove Jase, he never lies.

[BroTree123]

Groove is the ladies man. Listen up Jason you mug and harden the fuck up.

[Mimi]

Originally Posted by Johnny Groove

Jesus Christ

This is the worst possible mindset you can possibly have, man. You will have ZERO chance to be with her if you have this mentality.

You have to believe that YOU are the prize, that YOU are the catch, that she is lucky to have a great guy like YOU, that YOU are seeing if she is worth being with YOU, not the other way around.

Besides, if she is pretty, chances are she scares off a lot of guys, chances are, many men think like you. As a result, she is lonely and single, just waiting for some guy with the balls to step up and talk to her.

wise words from JG listen to him Jase

[tripwires]

Originally Posted by Certinfy

It's hard too. This girl went to a private secondary school here and works in Hollister (and people say you have to be really good looking to work there?) so definitely she probably has a boyfriend anyway.

Not sure whether to laugh or cry at this, so I'll settle for

Come on, how would you know whether she has a boyfriend if you don't even take the step of getting to know her and finding out? Don't be so scared. At the end of the day she's just a girl.

[Lee]

Originally Posted by Certinfy

This got really weird today.

So I was kind of looking for this girl today but couldn't find her so didn't bother. Then went to my other friend to ask her about how she did in her exam and my other friend (don't know her very well though) was there. We just got talking and it led to us talking about education, her past, religion, tennis (hey, she said as a kid she wanted to be a ballgirl at Wimbledon ), work, and whatever else. I was just being myself like everyone here told me to be and I guess by being myself I didn't really think of what I was doing next rather than just asking her questions and being friendly and somewhat confident.

Now the thing here is, I won't see either her or the other girl for about 50 days, but I don't know who I should try to go for. One of them I hardly know while the other I do now but I didn't think it at the time but after our conversation I just feel she's too good for me.

No idea how this even happened, but I guess it might just be better off forgetting about both since I have to concentrate on my exams and won't see either in at least 50 days.

If I am that girl, I will smack you for this (the bold part). She has a brain so let her do the thinking/feeling for herself.

[fast_clay]

i can help you Certinfy... i can get to know her for you... i will even throw in a free test drive for free... i'll test drive both of them, it's no problem... no charge... this thread has been pulling on the heart strings a bit lately... that way, when i'm done i can let you know which one goes all right if you know what i mean... you dont have to do a thing, and your shy nature can remain as it is... johnny groove is starting to tell stories again, so i just wanna get this message out there before the trouble starts... i have a feeling he is gonna test a few scripts in here...

[Topspindoctor]

Fast_clown trying to be witty and failing hard. It's gonna be hard to realize his life goal of getting accepted into clown college if he keeps this up

[fast_clay]

Originally Posted by Topspindoctor

Fast_clown trying to be witty and failing hard. It's gonna be hard to realize his life goal of getting accepted into clown college if he keeps this up

come on mate don't be daft, it was a little nudge to get the lad to get his mojo on before someone else steps up in his place...

for sure many people would have had many similar pep talks with you... surely you of all posters could recognise that... don't let the bitterness of erectile dysfunction blind you to what is really going on...