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10-15-2011, 12:18 AM
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Re: How do you personally deal with loneliness?
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I try and understand other people's feelings about loneliness and realize I am not alone in my loneliness, after all. Then solidarity abounds.
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This. Sometimes you feel depressed and unhappy about your life and you look around and get even more depressed. Because everyone around you seems to be doing great and seems to be so sure about they want out of life. But they don't. We all struggle...  The most important thing is to have the courage of changing your life when you're unhappy with it. |
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10-15-2011, 06:12 AM
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Re: How do you personally deal with loneliness?
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Originally Posted by 2003
Myself ive always personally associated loneliness with being single and/or not having many or any friends, but I understand one can feel lonely even when these things are present.
For me, I reckon my life would be as close to complete as I could hope for if I didnt have to battle loneliness all the time. I think it's one of those unique things that both males and females feel there is a lot of stigma to admitting or you feel weak admitting to it.
But what do you associate it with and how do you deal with it? Alcohol? Drugs? Hobbies? Sport? Work? Do you keep so busy you dont have time to think about it or what?
Does anyone associate it with rejection? Fear of never being able to find a life partner? I wish I could be like some people who just dont give a crap whether they have a girlfriend/boyfriend but I just cant, as hard as I try, I simply have to have one to feel content.
Its a hard thing to cope with because you feel like a loser for even mentioning it. You feel weak. Yet one assumes everyone feels it. Do you just soldier on or?
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find a work first, things will start happening......sitting at home won't lead you anywhere......damn what life partner man? you are not 35 or something are you? keep trying different girls or even go find a few strippers.....never go the alcohol, drugs way no matter what...... |
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10-15-2011, 06:35 AM
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Re: How do you personally deal with loneliness?
boxes of wine
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07-12-2012, 02:25 AM
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Re: How do you personally deal with loneliness?
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boxes of wine
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I have migrated to boxes of Vodka 
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Federer is a clown who only beat mugs, making his slam victories less meaningful.
Now since Nadal won many of his titles against a clownish Federer, it means Nadal's victories are also cheapened.
And finally, since Nole beat a clownish Nadal in many of his slam victories, his achievements are further cheapened.
Conclusion: everyone is a clown, playing in a neverending clown era.
- DustMan
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07-12-2012, 06:30 AM
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Re: How do you personally deal with loneliness?
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 Try playing tennis. It's very therapeutic.
And obviously I mean real life tennis, not lame Playstation shit.
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07-12-2012, 06:39 AM
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Re: Being Single
I chase Lesbians.
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07-12-2012, 06:57 AM
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Re: Being Single
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"But certain interests of particular people are so important that it would be wrong - morally wrong - for the community to sacrifice those interests just to secure an overall benefit. Political rights mark off and protect these particularly important interests. A political right, we may say, is a trump over the kind of trade-off argument that normally justifies political action." - Ronald Dworkin (RIP)
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07-12-2012, 03:57 PM
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Re: Being Single
Being single isn't all that bad.
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What do you like doing on MTF most?
Reading Johnny Groove threads.
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Johnny blurs the line between grandeur and grandiose
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07-12-2012, 05:02 PM
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Re: Being Single
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Being single isn't all that bad.
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Every girl you have in your avatar is EXACTLY my type.
Stop it, you're scaring me.
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David Ferrer - Jerzy Janowicz
Dustin Brown - Fabio Fognini - Gaël Monfils - Ernests Gulbis - Alexandr Dolgopolov
Gilles Simon - Tommy Haas - Pablo Cuevas - Radek Stepanek - Igor Sijsling - Paolo Lorenzi - Ruben Ramirez Hidalgo
17 > 17
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07-13-2012, 07:35 AM
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Re: Being Single
I feel more lonely when I'm with other people; solitude is my element
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07-17-2012, 10:44 PM
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Re: Being Single
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Originally Posted by Slade
I feel more lonely when I'm with other people; solitude is my element
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Sometimes this can be true
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Federer is a clown who only beat mugs, making his slam victories less meaningful.
Now since Nadal won many of his titles against a clownish Federer, it means Nadal's victories are also cheapened.
And finally, since Nole beat a clownish Nadal in many of his slam victories, his achievements are further cheapened.
Conclusion: everyone is a clown, playing in a neverending clown era.
- DustMan
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07-17-2012, 11:58 PM
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Re: Being Single
I feel lonelier when I'm in a crowd of people with whom I have nothing in common, than when I am by myself doing what I like and spending quality time with my cats. I haven't found anyone I have enough in common with yet. I am almost 48, so I know that getting married is probably not an option.
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07-18-2012, 01:11 PM
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Re: Being Single
so many banned people posted in this thread
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08-30-2012, 07:12 AM
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Re: Being Single
We should always keep ourselves busy with the activities or hobby we like. This is the Best way to live life.
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08-30-2012, 07:53 AM
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Re: How do you personally deal with loneliness?
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Originally Posted by Start da Game
find a work first, things will start happening......sitting at home won't lead you anywhere......damn what life partner man? you are not 35 or something are you? keep trying different girls or even go find a few strippers.....never go the alcohol, drugs way no matter what......
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Bless SdG. Wish I could good-rep even after a ban. |
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