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Tennis.com article: Why hasn't A Top ATP Male Tennis Pro Come Out As Gay?

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Openly Gay ATP Star

Saturday, April 13, 2013/

by Jonathan Scott


It so happens that the major professional sports leagues are clamoring to find the proper verbiage and strategy for handling, if not glad-handing, the arrival of the world's first active, openly gay athlete in one of their four realms. It's 2013, and none of them—MLB, NBA, NFL, NHL—has yet seen that emergence. Many pros have certainly "come out" after their careers have ceased, after their playing (if not glory) days are behind, and that's true of team and individual sports both.

It should be noted that this is the case for men's pro sports, not those of women, which marks a notable gap between the two locker rooms. In pro leagues today, one need look no further than soccer, where Megan Rapinoe of the U.S. national team is open about her identity, and this week at that. To be sure, she has company, and historically, not the least of whom are the likes of Billie Jean King, Martina Navratilova, and Amelie Mauresmo among the tennis elite, all multiple Grand Slam winners and former No. 1 stars.

Yet it was Navratilova herself (perhaps this young century's own Nostradamus, so fond of predictions) who said a few years ago that the ATP would see a top pro who was out by 2010. Well, 2010 then came and went.

Yes, King and Navratilova suffered endorsement-deal losses, and thus lost income away from the tennis court, in the wake of their declarations, their honesty. Mauresmo didn't suffer so much, but at least in the Western world, she was not as outsized a star as the others. Meanwhile, the recent news that an NFL player is "strongly considering" bringing to light his personal life—indeed, his very person—is a stirring reminder of how athletics are one of the final frontiers for timidity and careful treading when it comes to matters of sexual orientation.

The fact is that, among the ATP, there simply must be a peppering of those who favor the company of other men in private. If an ATP player—yea, even a top gun, not a Top 300 pro, with all due respect—were to have it out in the open and proceed with his career, there would certainly be unfortunate commentary (from some media types and his touring peers both) and awkwardness. There would also be a unity among many, in public and private conversations and debates. That young man would suffer in ways—probably some clunky interactions in the locker room, sadly, with some fellow players who have religious or cultural holdings against it—but he would ultimately triumph. I truly believe he would. The sponsorships and buzz surrounding his announcement would supersede the smattering of detractors' disagreeing opinions.

To be sure, it is (or will be) one thing to offer candid talk about his life away from arenas after he has stopped strolling into them as the main attraction. It's another entirely to shed light on the issue as an active participant, as a colleague to some others who will decidedly differ. That is especially believable with respect to tennis, such a solitary sport, and a remarkably global, multicultural one. Many intricate societal mores and ties of all kinds are involved among its top-tier athletes, and those will likely remain unswerving for quite some time, if they ever do budge. The one who emerges from the so-called closet will have to be considerate of and patient about that as well, about those who harbor such beliefs. He simply must be ready.

So if an NFL player can mull the idea of being himself in the public square of thought and sport, as he reportedly is doing now, it stands to reason that an ATP star can do the same in coming months. Indeed, some will be uncharitable or downright cruel in response to the admission. But it need not even be termed that, an admission. The contrary voices will, in the end, be drowned out by a chorus of those who appreciate or identify with the journey. Gone are the days of Greg Louganis and Rudy Galindo and the like, pioneers in their own right and in their own time but dated accounts now of sportsmen who lived publicly as themselves. That ATP player who comes out need not be a poster boy for a cause, though some will undoubtedly try to brand him as that. It's just so easy. Too easy. At the same time, he can be calculated about the disclosure, perhaps with endorsements lined up to reveal in quick succession when the news breaks, bolstering both his confidence and public standing. It's 2013, and the proverbial closet should feel mighty cramped at present.

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#3 ·
If the futures and Men's Opens level is anything to go by, there are quite a few gay players.

But in this day and age, especially where the majority of players are from Europe, it doesn't matter anymore, imo.

If a gay player came out, most people would be like: "Ok, so what?"

We're not in the 1950's anymore.
 
#5 ·
If the futures and Men's Opens level is anything to go by, there are quite a few gay players.

But in this day and age, especially where the majority of players are from Europe, it doesn't matter anymore, imo.

If a gay player came out, most people would be like: "Ok, so what?"

We're not in the 1950's anymore.
Why? Because you yankees think this is some kind of gay paradise?
 
#6 ·
Who cares
 
#9 ·
Why would gay men become tennis players when they can become tennis tards? Probably 50% of MTF and 100% of TF are gay men, clearly the internet is what's taking away all the potential future players.
 
#12 ·
Jonathan Scott writes "The Daily Spin" on tennis.com More like the gossip columns in a newspaper.

The other articles have titles like "Serena rocks swimsuit on Miami Beach", "Ernest Gulbis' antics in Monte Carlo", "Azarenka and Radwanska ranked 'sexiest', more" :p
 
#15 ·
Has the author read through MTF GM Off-Topic?:devil:
There's a huge probability that at least 1 player in the first 20 is gay,and I wouldn't care less if he comes out or not unless he'd used a beard coverage previously.Now that will be a shameless pussy.
 
#18 ·
Nobody has to, but many do. The question here was ''why hasn't'', not ''why don't".

Given the increasingly non-remarkable practice of being openly gay in the workplace, it is a legitimate question as to why pro sports seems to be lagging behind all other professions.
 
#20 ·
Or none are gay. Worried about being physically harmed possibly. Being made fun of? Pointless caring about what people think about you period. At the very least care what folks think, if the person thinking, means something to you. I've never understood other people coming out helping an individual whatever their age, maybe some people are more reliant on others than me.
 
#21 ·
Of course, you never understood, because heterosexuality is the norm, straight people push their straight lifestyle in the faces of gay people every single day. The media always point out who the straight guys are dating, who their wives and girlfriends are.

Heterosexuality is not treated as something to be shameful of, to be ridiculed, and mocked and dengeraded.

Heterosexuality is public and homosexuality is treated as private.

It is statistically impossible to say there are no gay men in the ATP top 100. There has to be at least five gay men in the top 100 it is impossible for there to be none.Your comment about being it pointless that people care is kind of ludicrous. Homophobia especially against male athletes is a serious issue. Robbie Rogers the American soccer player QUIT the sport because he feared dealing with the homophobia of the heterosexual men. Heterosexual men are the problem they are bullies they attack gay men and keep them silent. The silence is the answer,
 
#27 ·
if the author is holding up the WTA as a shining example of openness, it is interesting to note that there have been very few women tennis pros that are openly gay. so maybe there are just fewer homosexuals in pro tennis therefore few gay male pro tennis players. it could be self selection: I imagine the life on tour of a tennis pro just starting out is difficult enough without the added pressure of dealing with being in or out of the closet.



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