I live in Richmond, VA
I've been to the Bay Area, specifically San Jose/San Francisco once but was with family so I couldn't really let my gay flag fly. I think I may move there one day.
Prop 8 was so ridic, I blame the Mormons
But that mistake will be erased soon. I know many apathetic queens who didn't bother to vote on Prop 8; things have gotten a lot more organized in four years.