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Kowchi 11-24-2012 05:45 AM

Psychological Help and Self Help Thread. Come on in.
 
If you have any problems going on in your life and feel you want a little guidance come on in! :).
I'm a very reasonable person who is willing to help others. I have a background in Psychology and am good with helping others.

So please if you want to share, you may, I will listen with all ears :). Keep it anonymous as possible.

Those who don't give a *#*!@ and want to say "Mug Thread", or "Man Up" there is plenty of other threads for you to do that. :rolleyes:

Roger the Dodger 11-24-2012 06:14 AM

Re: Psychological Help and Self Help Thread. Come on in.
 
Are you psychologically stable? :)

If so, how come you are in MTF? Or is this some early campaigning for the ACC next year?
I mean you already had a notorious 'Beard-thread' going...:D

Kowchi 11-24-2012 07:13 AM

Re: Psychological Help and Self Help Thread. Come on in.
 
Yeah I am, I'm being genuine :). Please anything. Getting annoyed with Family, Friends are acting weird, Noticing weird emotions. Feeling a little down. Willing to talk.

Also, to be honest I don't even know what ACC is, other then that it is causing unnecessary drama :P.

Jverweij 11-24-2012 08:06 AM

Re: Psychological Help and Self Help Thread. Come on in.
 
good thread Kowchi! I've gotten annoyed with my family for most of my life, so I sympathize.

What kind of emotions are you feeling if you don't mind me asking? Are the irritations with your family a new occurrence? or does this happen more often?
And do you think your friends acting weird might be a reaction to you feeling a little down? or do you think it's the other way around?

feel free to pm me if you want :)

Kowchi 11-24-2012 09:15 AM

Re: Psychological Help and Self Help Thread. Come on in.
 
Ohh I was referring to others, if they had this issue. Right now I'm pretty stable and can't complain. Though I appreciate you wanting to help.

Shows good character :)

Punky 11-24-2012 09:20 AM

Re: Psychological Help and Self Help Thread. Come on in.
 
i hate my job, i rarely use the word hate but i really hate my job, im searching for a new one but It requires patience.
then i will have a new job i will be much more happy.

The Prince 11-24-2012 10:06 AM

Re: Psychological Help and Self Help Thread. Come on in.
 
Nice idea for a thread. Thank you.

I am more-or-less okay when it comes to temper, but I do 'lose it' occasionally and that is part of growing up.

My biggest problem is poor self-confidence, though.

Jverweij 11-24-2012 01:10 PM

Re: Psychological Help and Self Help Thread. Come on in.
 
oh fair enough :)

Bulldog, that is my biggest problem as well.

Punky 11-24-2012 01:16 PM

Re: Psychological Help and Self Help Thread. Come on in.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by The Bulldog (Post 12577572)

My biggest problem is poor self-confidence, though.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jverweij (Post 12577787)
oh fair enough :)

Bulldog, that is my biggest problem as well.

i think everyone deal with this problem, if someone say no i tend to believe he is lying..

The difference is the intensity and how we let it affect us

:hug:brave to say it

Jverweij 11-24-2012 01:21 PM

Re: Psychological Help and Self Help Thread. Come on in.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Punky (Post 12577795)
i think everyone deal with this problem, if someone say no i tend to believe he is lying..

The difference is the intensity and how we let it affect us

:hug:brave to say it

Thank you, nice thing to say :)

I mostly agree with you. There's always things that you know you are good at, but when it comes to your personality, I think noone is 100% confident of him/herself. There's also a big difference in how people express low self-esteem.

For instance I will never say that I am really good at something, whereas my brother says he is good at everything he's ever done, while we are both equally insecure.

BroTree123 11-24-2012 01:22 PM

Re: Psychological Help and Self Help Thread. Come on in.
 
Top notch thread. There's no shame in opening up.

Punky 11-24-2012 01:23 PM

Re: Psychological Help and Self Help Thread. Come on in.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Jverweij (Post 12577800)
Thank you, nice thing to say :)

anytime :wavey::kiss:

GOATsol 11-24-2012 01:26 PM

Re: Psychological Help and Self Help Thread. Come on in.
 
I think I'm starting to develop OCD or show some of it's symptoms. :(

Jverweij 11-24-2012 01:38 PM

Re: Psychological Help and Self Help Thread. Come on in.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by GOATsol (Post 12577811)
I think I'm starting to develop OCD or show some of it's symptoms. :(

could you elaborate abit? what kind of OCD-related behaviour are you talking about? Do you think the OCD is related to certain events in your life?

The Prince 11-24-2012 01:57 PM

Re: Psychological Help and Self Help Thread. Come on in.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Jverweij (Post 12577787)
oh fair enough :)

Bulldog, that is my biggest problem as well.

If you don't mind me asking, what sort of problems do you yourself encounter with poor self-confidence? With me, it kind of leads to isolation from others, especially when things aren't going my way.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Punky (Post 12577795)
i think everyone deal with this problem, if someone say no i tend to believe he is lying..

The difference is the intensity and how we let it affect us

:hug:brave to say it

Cheers Amber! :) I agree, but I think some people are more affected by poor self-esteem than others.


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