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Thought I was gonna get murdered.....

Sofonda Cox
07-10-2011, 09:26 PM
Okay so I've been chatting to this guy on Gaydar all weekend, looks hot, seems nice and lives close by. So earlier I went round his house and he looks hardly anything like his pictures (lost count of how many times thats happend :rolleyes:) and he starts talking about how lonely he is and how he had loads of therapy and is obsessive. Anyway long story short I felt pressured in to having sex with him and thought I should just get it over with. Half way through he starts talking about Dennis Neilson and other serial killers and how he can identify with them - then he says he doesn't want to let me go!!! By now i'm freaking out (and any hope of an erection was looooong gone), so I was like 'I'm not feeling too good maybe I should go and we can meet up again another time' but he didn't listen and held me down. I felt totally trapped and no one knew where I was either (again stupid i know). After a while it was over and I got dressed and practically ran out of the house LMAO. :(:(:(

Edit: His house was bare - like no one lived there. Honestly the more I think about it the more it's freaking me out now. At least he doesn't know where I live. He also seemed to enjoy causing me pain too... :tape:

Edit 2: For some reason he insisted on showing me his garden - which I really didn't care about but I said okay fine I'll look - it was all newly laid block paving. I may send an anonymous tip to the police to look for bodies under there. What a total freak.

Garson007
07-10-2011, 09:46 PM
... LOL. I find it strange that in this day and age of Internet dating people actually meet at non-neutral venues. I'd never meet someone if it wasn't in a somewhat public and/or populated place. It's like when my current bf tells me he met this guy from the Internet and the guy literally throttled him.

To be fair, I don't look much like my picture I have up on gaydar either, but that's just what 5 years do to you, you know. :P

Sofonda Cox
07-10-2011, 09:48 PM
... LOL. I find it strange that in this day and age of Internet dating people actually meet at non-neutral venues. I'd never meet someone if it wasn't in a somewhat public and/or populated place. It's like when my current bf tells me he met this guy from the Internet and the guy literally throttled him.

To be fair, I don't look much like my picture I have up on gaydar either, but that's just what 5 years do to you, you know. :P

To be fair though, I've had some excellent shags from meeting guys online - plus it's easy if you've got the horn :shrug:

Gagsquet
07-10-2011, 09:54 PM
Gay dating sites are dangerous.

Certinfy
07-10-2011, 10:03 PM
Oh Lord :hug: If I were you I would just inform the police or something for sure.

jayjay
07-10-2011, 10:04 PM
Okay so I've been chatting to this guy on Gaydar all weekend, looks hot, seems nice and lives close by. So earlier I went round his house and he looks hardly anything like his pictures (lost count of how many times thats happend :rolleyes:) and he starts talking about how lonely he is and how he had loads of therapy and is obsessive. Anyway long story short I felt pressured in to having sex with him and thought I should just get it over with. Half way through he starts talking about Dennis Neilson and other serial killers and how he can identify with them - then he says he doesn't want to let me go!!! By now i'm freaking out (and any hope of an erection was looooong gone), so I was like 'I'm not feeling too good maybe I should go and we can meet up again another time' but he didn't listen can held me down. I felt totally trapped and no one knew where I was either (again stupid i know). After a while it was over and I got dressed and practically ran out of the house LMAO. :(:(:(

Edit: His house was bare - like no one lived there. Honestly the more I think about it the more it's freaking me out now. At least he doesn't know where I live. He also seemed to enjoy causing me pain too... :tape:

Edit 2: For some reason he insisted on showing me his garden - which I really didn't care about but I said okay fine I'll look - it was all newly laid block paving. I may send an anonymous tip to the police to look for bodies under there. What a total freak.

Just be thankful he didn't have an alsatian.

abraxas21
07-10-2011, 10:24 PM
By now i'm freaking out (and any hope of an erection was looooong gone)

i always thought of you as a receiver

Sofonda Cox
07-10-2011, 10:25 PM
i always thought of you as a receiver

My anus is a wreck, it's painful when stuff comes out let alone when stuff gets rammed in.

abraxas21
07-10-2011, 10:27 PM
My anus is a wreck, it's painful when stuff comes out let alone when stuff gets rammed in.

:lol:

that wasn't a pretty picture there...

Gagsquet
07-10-2011, 10:35 PM
My anus is a wreck, it's painful when stuff comes out let alone when stuff gets rammed in.

:speakles: :scared:

Filo V.
07-11-2011, 02:09 AM
I'm sorry this happened to you :hug:

It's also quite scary to read as well, because your story is similar to stories of many others using these chat sites, especially gay men. Gay sex lines aren't really safe. A lot of perverts, a lot of gay bashers identifying as gay to lure gay men to rob and beat (that happens pretty often), a lot of people lie about their age and weight. At least half the men are typically closeted and married with a woman (or guy). A lot of drug addicts and a lot of rent boys either looking for money, or end up sticking you up and/or robbing you for money. Then the whole fact many of them lie about their disease situation.

I always try to steer clear of the sex sites because a good 75% of them are either spammers, sex workers or unfuckable. I let the guys make the first move on me, I never make first moves on chat sites, because I want to see the goods and what a guy is about before ever getting with 'em.

OddJob
07-11-2011, 05:18 AM
Guuurl you betta watch yo weave cuz he just might snatch it.:o

Pirata.
07-11-2011, 05:43 AM
^^:haha:

But seriously, if you're going to meet up with a guy, next time do it in a public place and never, I mean N E V E R put out on the first date.

buddyholly
07-11-2011, 03:34 PM
Okay so I've been chatting to this guy on Gaydar all weekend, looks hot, seems nice and lives close by. So earlier I went round his house and he looks hardly anything like his pictures (lost count of how many times thats happend :rolleyes:) and he starts talking about how lonely he is and how he had loads of therapy and is obsessive. Anyway long story short I felt pressured in to having sex with him and thought I should just get it over with. Half way through he starts talking about Dennis Neilson and other serial killers and how he can identify with them - then he says he doesn't want to let me go!!! By now i'm freaking out (and any hope of an erection was looooong gone), so I was like 'I'm not feeling too good maybe I should go and we can meet up again another time' but he didn't listen and held me down. I felt totally trapped and no one knew where I was either (again stupid i know). After a while it was over and I got dressed and practically ran out of the house LMAO. :(:(:(

Edit: His house was bare - like no one lived there. Honestly the more I think about it the more it's freaking me out now. At least he doesn't know where I live. He also seemed to enjoy causing me pain too... :tape:

Edit 2: For some reason he insisted on showing me his garden - which I really didn't care about but I said okay fine I'll look - it was all newly laid block paving. I may send an anonymous tip to the police to look for bodies under there. What a total freak.

Next time you find yourself in a similar situation, have some Viagra on hand. That should solve the problem.

alfonsojose
07-11-2011, 04:21 PM
Casual encounters on non-neutral sites are not a choice for me since ages. Saunas rule :p

Sofonda Cox
07-11-2011, 06:05 PM
Next time you find yourself in a similar situation, have some Viagra on hand. That should solve the problem.

No it won't, as viagra only works if your turned on in the first place. Nice try at trying to be funny :hug:

Thanos
07-12-2011, 12:09 AM
^^:haha:

But seriously, if you're going to meet up with a guy, next time do it in a public place and never, I mean N E V E R put out on the first date.

My anus is a wreck

there's your answer

Certinfy
07-12-2011, 12:33 AM
Did you inform the police in the end?

Smoke944
07-12-2011, 01:02 AM
quality thread

fast_clay
07-12-2011, 01:10 AM
i wonder if anyone from mtf would have missed you... as you came to rest between two brick walls... in parts...

probably not if i would hazard a guess...

The Magician
07-12-2011, 01:12 AM
Why would you post on a gay chat/dating site other than MTF :confused:

EliSter
07-12-2011, 01:54 AM
there's your answer

:lol:

Sofonda Cox
07-12-2011, 06:25 PM
i wonder if anyone from mtf would have missed you... as you came to rest between two brick walls... in parts...

probably not if i would hazard a guess...

Now my feelings are ripped apart, I wish I had died.

Did you inform the police in the end?

No I didn't - just trying to forget the whole thing. :lol:

Corey Feldman
07-12-2011, 06:29 PM
Okay so I've been chatting to this guy on Gaydar all weekend, looks hot, seems nice and lives close by. So earlier I went round his house and he looks hardly anything like his pictures (lost count of how many times thats happend :rolleyes:) and he starts talking about how lonely he is and how he had loads of therapy and is obsessive. Anyway long story short I felt pressured in to having sex with him and thought I should just get it over with. Half way through he starts talking about Dennis Neilson and other serial killers and how he can identify with them - then he says he doesn't want to let me go!!! By now i'm freaking out (and any hope of an erection was looooong gone), so I was like 'I'm not feeling too good maybe I should go and we can meet up again another time' but he didn't listen and held me down. I felt totally trapped and no one knew where I was either (again stupid i know). After a while it was over and I got dressed and practically ran out of the house LMAO. :(:(:(

Edit: His house was bare - like no one lived there. Honestly the more I think about it the more it's freaking me out now. At least he doesn't know where I live. He also seemed to enjoy causing me pain too... :tape:

Edit 2: For some reason he insisted on showing me his garden - which I really didn't care about but I said okay fine I'll look - it was all newly laid block paving. I may send an anonymous tip to the police to look for bodies under there. What a total freak.well dont bother me at MTF and i wont invite you back at my house again

Sofonda Cox
07-12-2011, 07:57 PM
well dont bother me at MTF and i wont invite you back at my house again

No deal.

Or Levy
07-15-2011, 08:55 PM
I'm sorry this had happened to you.

Do listen to the advice people had been giving you, don't meet strange guys at THEIR place. Meet them somewhere neutral, so you could see whether they are normal or of the rapists/serial killers variety.

cobalt60
07-15-2011, 09:31 PM
I'm sorry this had happened to you.

Do listen to the advice people had been giving you, don't meet strange guys at THEIR place. Meet them somewhere neutral, so you could see whether they are normal or of the rapists/serial killers variety.

Unfortunately many of these folks are more normal appearing than you'd think. Many times they work at being seductive to get you into their confidence. But yes I hope you learned something from this safin rules; very scary and glad you got home even if it was the worse for wear.

Sofonda Cox
07-16-2011, 11:34 AM
I'm sorry this had happened to you.

Do listen to the advice people had been giving you, don't meet strange guys at THEIR place. Meet them somewhere neutral, so you could see whether they are normal or of the rapists/serial killers variety.

Unfortunately many of these folks are more normal appearing than you'd think. Many times they work at being seductive to get you into their confidence. But yes I hope you learned something from this safin rules; very scary and glad you got home even if it was the worse for wear.

Thank you both for your replies. Yes I have learned a lot from this, it's the first time it's happened though. No more casual sex for me.... :sad:

Lee
07-16-2011, 06:41 PM
Thank you both for your replies. Yes I have learned a lot from this, it's the first time it's happened though. No more casual sex for me.... :sad:

Really hope you will stick to this (because of the danger you will face) but I am not sure. Be careful and as many said before, never meet strangers in their territory, not just their houses.

Filo V.
07-17-2011, 01:17 AM
Oh, you can still have casual sex, just don't go into the house of strangers or let strangers in your home and you'll be fine :lol:

VolandriFan
07-17-2011, 02:56 AM
I do feel sorry for you, but the greater risk is picking up an STD with this kind of behaviour. They're much more common than serial killers.

Dmitry Verdasco
07-17-2011, 12:21 PM
*subsribestogothroughandmakewittycommentsatalaterd ate*

Fujee
07-17-2011, 05:04 PM
Be careful man, could've been real nasty. Glad you're okay

Dmitry Verdasco
07-19-2011, 08:08 AM
Okay so I've been chatting to this guy on Gaydar all weekend, looks hot, seems nice and lives close by. So earlier I went round his house and he looks hardly anything like his pictures (lost count of how many times thats happend :rolleyes:)

Like you do this often? :hysteric:

and he starts talking about how lonely he is and how he had loads of therapy and is obsessive. Anyway long story short I felt pressured in to having sex with him and thought I should just get it over with.

:unsure:

Half way through he starts talking about Dennis Neilson and other serial killers and how he can identify with them - then he says he doesn't want to let me go!!!

:haha::haha::haha: I can just picture your face! :sobbing:

By now i'm freaking out (and any hope of an erection was looooong gone)

No kidding.

, so I was like 'I'm not feeling too good maybe I should go and we can meet up again another time' but he didn't listen and held me down. I felt totally trapped

Maybe because he was holding you down?

and no one knew where I was either (again stupid i know). After a while it was over and I got dressed and practically ran out of the house LMAO. :(:(:(

Done that before...

Edit: His house was bare - like no one lived there. Honestly the more I think about it the more it's freaking me out now. At least he doesn't know where I live. He also seemed to enjoy causing me pain too... :tape:

I enjoy seeing people in pain too but it doesn't happen during sexy time because of my small peen :sobbing:

Edit 2: For some reason he insisted on showing me his garden - which I really didn't care about but I said okay fine I'll look - it was all newly laid block paving. I may send an anonymous tip to the police to look for bodies under there. What a total freak.

I bet there's severed penises under there.

I've only met with like 5 guys off Gaydar, and 2 off Grindr. I always freak out and have my phone on me though... and practice safe sex - if it actually gets there.