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Bolar needs your help!!!

Bolar Bolabi
03-15-2011, 08:45 AM
That's right folks.

Bolar, Australia's precious man needs advice.

I've been recently seeing an older lady. She's 53. Anyway, things have been great. The company is good, the sex is good, everything is good and has been good for the past 3 months.

It's been that good that she asked the question that I didn't want to hear. She asked if I could move in permanently as I'm looking for a place to live.

Now, if my family found out about this, they would dissown me as she's old enough to be my mother and there is no way I can live with her because they will find out. Again, I don't want to ditch her because we're both enjoying each other.

So Bolar is in a dilemma. To stop seeing her or move in with her? Help?!?!

jonathancrane
03-15-2011, 08:55 AM
If she makes you happy stay with her

PS: Don't tell her about your drinking habits, you know what I mean, right?

Bolar Bolabi
03-15-2011, 09:09 AM
If she makes you happy stay with her

PS: Don't tell her about your drinking habits, you know what I mean, right?

:haha:

orangehat
03-15-2011, 09:10 AM
:spit:

MTF sure has it's share of casanovas.

To be on topic: Which one would you mind losing more?

JolánGagó
03-15-2011, 09:16 AM
It isn't your family's business, do as you please.

Bolar Bolabi
03-15-2011, 11:05 AM
Good point Orangehat. Interesting.

The thing that is worrying me is she knows and I made it perfectly clear that this was a casual thing. More like sex buddies. However, she seems to now think it's something more when it clearly isn't.

Think I will cut all ties. There are other women out there. I'm 27, I'm at uni. I don't want to be attached at the moment.

Nathaliia
03-15-2011, 11:12 AM
Be honest with her, she's old enough to understand :tape:.

Orka_n
03-15-2011, 11:23 AM
Be honest with her, she's old enough to understand :tape:.This.

gulzhan
03-15-2011, 12:38 PM
Be honest with her, she's old enough to understand :tape:.

+1

Tell her you like sex and company but don't want the relationship be official. And let her make decision. After all, she has more to lose ;)

Johnny Groove
03-15-2011, 01:05 PM
Who cares what your family thinks? You do what you want.

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Bolar Bolabi
03-16-2011, 04:07 AM
Well I went out with her for lunch today and made it perfectly clear. She wants something more and wouldn't budge so I told her that's it. We're not seeing each other anymore.

fast_clay
03-16-2011, 04:16 AM
and that's how its done...

bolar... winning...!

GlennMirnyi
03-16-2011, 04:31 AM
Bolar just lost a GILF.

Bolar Bolabi
03-16-2011, 05:22 AM
Bolar just lost a GILF.

There will be another one.

gulzhan
03-16-2011, 02:46 PM
Well I went out with her for lunch today and made it perfectly clear. She wants something more and wouldn't budge so I told her that's it. We're not seeing each other anymore.

She'll be back :hug:

Henry Chinaski
03-16-2011, 02:59 PM
53? Too good.
and me having trouble trying to catch a 34 y/o. This Bolar is good.

GlennMirnyi
03-16-2011, 03:33 PM
There will be another one.

So you like the old ones, Bolar.

I never expected this from you.

I do trust your abilities, though. Do you still sell your shirts, etc?

Bolar Bolabi
03-17-2011, 04:22 AM
So you like the old ones, Bolar.

I never expected this from you.

I do trust your abilities, though. Do you still sell your shirts, etc?

You learn a lot from the older, more experienced ladies.

I'm 27. I will give myself another year or so chasing after the older ones and then start looking for girls around the age of 24-28 and then find one to settle down with. :wavey:

Bolar Bolabi
03-17-2011, 04:23 AM
53? Too good.
and me having trouble trying to catch a 34 y/o. This Bolar is good.

How old are you?

ExcaliburII
03-17-2011, 04:27 AM
gam gam gam

bad gambler
03-17-2011, 04:33 AM
Is the sex good?

GlennMirnyi
03-17-2011, 04:41 AM
You learn a lot from the older, more experienced ladies.

I'm 27. I will give myself another year or so chasing after the older ones and then start looking for girls around the age of 24-28 and then find one to settle down with. :wavey:

Yeah my oldest was 30 when I was 21.

I'm in a barely legal phase, though. :p 18-19. :D

Bolar Bolabi
03-17-2011, 08:09 AM
Is the sex good?

You can answer that question for yourself in what, 20 odd years?

But I can answer it now. Yes it is!

Bolar Bolabi
03-17-2011, 08:11 AM
Yeah my oldest was 30 when I was 21.

I'm in a barely legal phase, though. :p 18-19. :D

Nice.

I'm at Uni with all these 18-21 year olds. I'm in heaven. I should really stop looking at the older women now.

Thing is I'm younger than I look. People can mistake me for being a 22/23 year old rather than a 27 year old so I'm in the perfect position to have some fun.

I have to participate in a debate and I chose the topic which I would usually argue against but chose to argue in favour because there was a hot 18 year old on the team.

jonathancrane
03-17-2011, 11:21 AM
I have to participate in a debate and I chose the topic which I would usually argue against but chose to argue in favour because there was a hot 18 year old on the team.

:yeah:
It paid off?

Bolar Bolabi
03-17-2011, 12:42 PM
:yeah:
It paid off?

Ask me in about 7 weeks.

Filo V.
03-18-2011, 05:43 AM
You remind me of me, Bolar. The straight version of me. Except I'm less of an actual player :lol:

Anyway, if I were you, I would just keep it causal, and keep it within your age range. 53 year old women tend to want to settle down more and be more serious, they are more developed and mature. 18 year old girls usually don't know what they want and can be clingy. Do your own thing but don't get caught in any traps.

GlennMirnyi
03-18-2011, 06:33 AM
Nice.

I'm at Uni with all these 18-21 year olds. I'm in heaven. I should really stop looking at the older women now.

Thing is I'm younger than I look. People can mistake me for being a 22/23 year old rather than a 27 year old so I'm in the perfect position to have some fun.

I have to participate in a debate and I chose the topic which I would usually argue against but chose to argue in favour because there was a hot 18 year old on the team.

I know how it feels, mr. legend.

I'm taking an absolutely useless and unnecessary subject in uni just because of a girl. Well, I guess that subject is no longer useless. ;)

Bolar Bolabi
03-18-2011, 06:55 AM
I know how it feels, mr. legend.

I'm taking an absolutely useless and unnecessary subject in uni just because of a girl. Well, I guess that subject is no longer useless. ;)

:haha:

This debate is for Politics. I was going to pull out of the unit until I saw some of the hot girls there. :cool:

GlennMirnyi
03-18-2011, 07:14 AM
:haha:

This debate is for Politics. I was going to pull out of the unit until I saw some of the hot girls there. :cool:

Exactly.

Scouting the area is always of the utmost importance.

Bolar Bolabi
03-18-2011, 08:40 AM
Should turn this into a bolar chat thread and see how many girls I nail at uni in the next 3 years. :D

Bolar Bolabi
03-18-2011, 08:41 AM
You remind me of me, Bolar. The straight version of me. Except I'm less of an actual player :lol:

Anyway, if I were you, I would just keep it causal, and keep it within your age range. 53 year old women tend to want to settle down more and be more serious, they are more developed and mature. 18 year old girls usually don't know what they want and can be clingy. Do your own thing but don't get caught in any traps.

I beg to differ. The older women I have been with have usually been divorced and don't want to settle down again. - And that applied to the women I slept with to try and get with her daughter. But I'll keep that advice on board. Cheers!

jonathancrane
03-18-2011, 09:29 AM
I beg to differ. The older women I have been with have usually been divorced and don't want to settle down again. - And that applied to the women I slept with to try and get with her daughter. But I'll keep that advice on board. Cheers!

:spit:

Johnny Groove
03-18-2011, 03:56 PM
Well played Bolar.

ibreak4coffee
03-18-2011, 06:46 PM
Is the sex that good that you would want to be with a 53 year old for a fling?

Bolar Bolabi
03-19-2011, 04:20 AM
Is the sex that good that you would want to be with a 53 year old for a fling?

Yes. It's good! Trust me!

GlennMirnyi
03-19-2011, 07:19 AM
Never doubt master Bolar! :p

jmf07
04-06-2011, 02:58 PM
What is the latest?

Bolar Bolabi
07-16-2013, 09:45 AM
:yeah:
It paid off?

To mark my brief return, I need to answer this question.

Yeah it paid off. We had lots of sex. Hell, she surprised me with how 'experienced' she was!

Topspindoctor
07-16-2013, 10:44 AM
To mark my brief return, I need to answer this question.

Yeah it paid off. We had lots of sex. Hell, she surprised me with how 'experienced' she was!

It might be the extra strength whiskey talking, but any chance of posting pics? I will forward them to my agent. There is a potential career in pro pornography for you. Lots of granny fetish sites springing up as of late and you might be a sleeping talent :smoke:

Gris
07-16-2013, 01:32 PM
To mark my brief return, I need to answer this question.

Yeah it paid off. We had lots of sex. Hell, she surprised me with how 'experienced' she was!


:rolls::sport:

octatennis
07-16-2013, 09:56 PM
Nice to see you are still doing fine with the ladies. Keep getting those asses.

alfonsojose
07-16-2013, 11:39 PM
Bolar :hug: Margaret Court is avaliable i think ;)