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Sexual Addiction Isn't Real

.-Federers_Mate-.
03-13-2011, 12:48 PM
is tiger really an addict? how do we know this? like diagnosed sexual preds.Why are we so quick to label people as addicts? so many questions


discuss

Johnny Groove
03-13-2011, 12:52 PM
Yeah he's an addict because he's a pro athlete who had pussy thrown in his face 24/7 and chose to accept it.

Who knows how many times Tiger said no to a floozie? You can say no a million times, if you say yes once (or twice, or 20 times), you get labeled an addict.

Conclusion? Don't get married. Ever. It is a female trap.

.-Federers_Mate-.
03-13-2011, 01:00 PM
It was an example. Address the thread properly thanks.

Sapeod
03-13-2011, 07:20 PM
Sex addicst are those sad people who are so desperate for sex that they pay for it...
Also, if they do anything (wrong people, pay, damage people's lives, use people etc.) to get sex...

Did Tiger pay for sex? Did he use people to get sex? Did he do anything he had to to get sex?

If not, then he's not a sex addict imo.

Arkulari
03-13-2011, 08:15 PM
There are sex addicts of course, it is an illness. (and usually those people don't get married or don't last long in a committed relationship due to the fact that they cannot stop themselves)

But there are other people who just use that as an excuse for being douches, Tiger a prime example of that.

fast_clay
03-13-2011, 09:09 PM
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Sofonda Cox
03-13-2011, 09:13 PM
Sex addicst are those sad people who are so desperate for sex that they pay for it...
Also, if they do anything (wrong people, pay, damage people's lives, use people etc.) to get sex...

Did Tiger pay for sex? Did he use people to get sex? Did he do anything he had to to get sex?

If not, then he's not a sex addict imo.

Sex addiction can actually be a serious problem. It can have negative consequences like any other addiction. And they don't have to pay for it either - there are many ways to get sex.

peribsen
03-14-2011, 12:52 AM
So now we know what the OP has been labeled, no wonder he is so adamant in denying the charge...

Sex addicst are those sad people who are so desperate for sex that they pay for it...
Also, if they do anything (wrong people, pay, damage people's lives, use people etc.) to get sex...

What on earth does sex addiction have to do with paying for sex or wronging people? Some sex addicts may indeed do both of those things, but neither of them is relevant for the diagnosis.

So, according to you, a guy who spends say 6-8 hours every day in front of a computer watching all the porn that comes his way on the internet... is not a sex addict? Weird interpretation, to say the least.

And, BTW, people who pay for sex more often belong to the category of those lonely and despaired than to the category of addicts (then they would need to return again and again and would steal to pay for sex, like so many drug users).

Filo V.
03-14-2011, 01:10 AM
Yes, it's real. I know of a person who has been and I think is currently (not sure) being treated for it, and this person basically has a never ending need for sex on a level even stronger than like drug or alcohol addiction, because in this case it's not like you can just find a rush to preoccupy your mind off of drugs or alcohol, but it's like a constant mental physical state of being that doesn't really go away unless you do something sexual. So in that way it's even more of a compulsion than other more known addictions. And the reasons for it can be extremely complex and deep.

.-Federers_Mate-.
03-14-2011, 01:48 PM
ahaha filo we're not talking about imaginary stuff here, get that shit off my driveway.

Guys I'm just playing with your minds OF COURSE it's REAL...consider this

Fast forward. Grungo is all grown up and has left his parents' house. Grungo still enjoys female companionship, but something isn't the same. Female companionship doesn't comfort Grungo like it used to. It doesn't quell the stresses of the world like it did once upon a time, it doesn't take him to those highest of mountain tops. Sure, Grungo always reaches orgasm with his female partners. But something is different. In an effort to achieve that high which orgasm used to give him, Grungo escalates: More sex. Sex until he gets what he wants. But still he feels empty. Fast forwards to a doctor visit. Grungo has a skin condition which is aggravated by sexual activity. Grungo needs to calm his sexual activity down or else. But he can't. He needs to find that happy place. Soon, as Grungo tries to stop, he is compelled. He drags himself, beyond his control, by the scruff of the neck, into sexual intercourse. His partners are put off by this, so he grabs them by the scruff of the neck more often than not and forces outside Grungo make both people engage in sexual activity. Afterwards, Grungo apologizes, cries, and laments the state of things. He feels truly awful. Alone. Who can he turn to? Grungo doesn't want sex, but something inside him does and if it doesn't get it, it feels hopeless and deprived. Eventually, Grungo starts spending more and more time on preparation for sex, growing distant from everything around him that he used to hold sacred. Grungo misses his grandmother's funeral when he gets sidetracked participating in an ever-escalating "hunt" ritual where he uses a long perfected spiel to coax women into sex. The monster in him relishes and takes pride in this activity. However, the real Grungo loathes himself while his mastery of this activity excites the beast. But post-orgasm, realizing his sex addiction has, despite his best efforts not to let it, stopped him from sending his grandmother off in style, Grungo cries out in agony. He is an addict and he hates what sex has done to him. And still he can't stop. He binges. He hunts at his workplace, a chocolate factory, and an airport restroom. Finally, dragged kicking and screaming into a holding cell, Grungo realizes he's reached rock bottom. But not before forcing prison sex on one of the other occupants of his cage. This is not ordinary sexual energy. This is something more. Something deviant.

The truth: Grungo is actually I, Federers_Mate. To anyone who would dare say sex addiction isn't a real thing, I disagree. I despise what sex has done to me, but I can't stop having it. Woe is me.

JolánGagó
03-14-2011, 02:02 PM
FiloV wannabe.

Baghdatis#1
03-26-2011, 07:49 PM
Grungo is such a liar :lol:

kooties
03-28-2011, 02:12 AM
On an intrinsic level, is sex addiction even real?

Is it the act of sex itself that is addictive or is it because people who are diagnosed with this "sex addiction" have addictive personalities to begin with

DualMedia
03-28-2011, 03:36 AM
Sexual addiction is an excuse for why you cheated on ur wife.

bhathiya9999
03-28-2011, 04:09 PM
When your wife is not beauty you will addict to sex :D :D