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Big mistake...

safin-rules-no.1
12-25-2008, 09:11 PM
Ok so here's what happend. My boss is v hot, and i sent him a drunken text message saying certain things i'd like to do to him. He didn't reply, plus i know he's one for being totally 'professional'. Now i've got to go and face the music... :sad:

Has any of you low lives ever done this before? And if so, what was the out come?

Love and Xmas wishes to all :hearts:

NinaNina19
12-25-2008, 09:28 PM
Lie and say you accidentally sent it to him and that you were joking with your friend. Or, say one of your friends did it to make you look bad. Not very believable but your only options imo.

safin-rules-no.1
12-25-2008, 09:36 PM
Lie and say you accidentally sent it to him and that you were joking with your friend. Or, say one of your friends did it to make you look bad. Not very believable but your only options imo.

i already thought of this, but its really obiviously a lie :sad:

I thought about denying all knowledge of the text message.......:confused:

NinaNina19
12-25-2008, 09:43 PM
i already thought of this, but its really obiviously a lie :sad:

I thought about denying all knowledge of the text message.......:confused:

It's worth a try.

Nathaliia
12-25-2008, 10:00 PM
Say it was your brother who hoped for some v-cash.

safin-rules-no.1
12-25-2008, 10:02 PM
Say it was your brother who hoped for some v-cash.

1. I don't have a brother :D

2. Why would my brother (if i had one) be going through my phone sending perverted texts to my boss? :(

3. I doubt my boss would know what v-cash is :sobbing:

Clydey
12-25-2008, 10:10 PM
i already thought of this, but its really obiviously a lie :sad:

I thought about denying all knowledge of the text message.......:confused:

Say that one of your friends got a hold of your phone and pretend that they sent the text as a joke.

Ivanatis
12-25-2008, 10:11 PM
I thought about denying all knowledge of the text message.......:confused:

no good idea imo
get a great excuse or be honest

Aloimeh
12-25-2008, 10:12 PM
Ok so here's what happend. My boss is v hot, and i sent him a drunken text message saying certain things i'd like to do to him. He didn't reply, plus i know he's one for being totally 'professional'. Now i've got to go and face the music... :sad:

Has any of you low lives ever done this before? And if so, what was the out come?

Love and Xmas wishes to all :hearts:

The mature and right thing to do is to own up that you sent it, to explain that you were drunk and weren't thinking, and that you are indeed very attracted to him.

If he's reasonable, he'll get over it and all that will remain is a little embarrassment on your part.

Next time, don't get drunk.

safin-rules-no.1
12-25-2008, 10:15 PM
The mature and right thing to do is to own up that you sent it, to explain that you were drunk and weren't thinking, and that you are indeed very attracted to him.

If he's reasonable, he'll get over it and all that will remain is a little embarrassment on your part.

Next time, don't get drunk.

Looks like i'll have to do this. Oh god why did i have to do it in the first place....:lol: :mad:

alfonsojose
12-25-2008, 10:18 PM
Looks like i'll have to do this. Oh god why did i have to do it in the first place....:lol: :mad:

Is he gay? I've had some hetero crushes but i've never done something like that. I guess it's about me not liking alcohol :spit:

safin-rules-no.1
12-25-2008, 10:25 PM
Is he gay? I've had some hetero crushes but i've never done something like that. I guess it's about me not liking alcohol :spit:

Yes he is gay :lol: and hot :sobbing: If he were hetero i dont think i would have sent it even if drunk lmao

Nathaliia
12-25-2008, 10:28 PM
You're lucky he's gay. Otherwise to save it ... uhm, maybe you could say you lost a bet.

safin-rules-no.1
12-25-2008, 10:30 PM
You're lucky he's gay. Otherwise to save it ... uhm, maybe you could say you lost a bet.

I thought of that too, but i dont think it would really work.

I think im just gonna have to come clean and admit i think he's hot, and try and move on from there. Either that or find a new job, which i may be doing :lol:

Ivanatis
12-25-2008, 10:59 PM
probably the beginning of a great love:)

alfonsojose
12-25-2008, 11:01 PM
Yes he is gay :lol: and hot :sobbing: If he were hetero i dont think i would have sent it even if drunk lmao

:lol:

10K Futures Qualifier
12-26-2008, 02:36 AM
I do not envy you :(.

reggie1
12-27-2008, 03:05 PM
Can't you invent an evil twin, American soap opera style and say that he did it as he's on a mission to destroy you? I think the best thing to do is to come clean. You never know, he may be really flattered. Is he older than you/in a relationship?

kai.
12-27-2008, 05:31 PM
what did u do??? :scared:

did u tell him the true??

BigJohn
12-27-2008, 10:04 PM
Two things:

1- I hope the message did not include the peeing thing, that is at least third dirty message material in most circumstances...

2- I really hope you'll give an update on what happened when you go back to work...

Hope it all turns for the best. Good luck buddy.

Henry Chinaski
12-27-2008, 11:17 PM
just tell him the message was 100% true and you might get lucky.

opeth84
12-28-2008, 12:11 AM
You could just not mention anything at all and if he approaches you about it then you just say your phone was stolen,and change your sim and get a new number if your that desperate :)

Garson007
12-28-2008, 08:43 AM
Heh. Also sounds to me like the begining of a great love... :p

safin-rules-no.1
12-28-2008, 12:28 PM
:lol:!!!! Ive not seen him back at work yet - he had Xmas period off. But i will update when he comes back :tape: :sad:

Bobby
12-28-2008, 02:08 PM
Tricky situation for sure. Good luck!

BigJohn
01-05-2009, 10:02 PM
The suspense is killing me. How long is your Cristmas break?

RogerFan82
01-06-2009, 04:58 AM
Oh my god,I don't believe this. :eek:

Lin Lin
01-06-2009, 07:44 AM
Weird thing for me:shrug:

safin-rules-no.1
01-09-2009, 08:53 PM
:lol: ok so he was back at work a few days ago, and nothing was said :D although he wasn't exactly as nice as usual :tape: I guess he just thought it waould be a good idea to forget about it - but there's definately an atmosphere now :(

JolánGagó
01-09-2009, 09:08 PM
He's waiting for you to confirm that first step with something bolder ;)

ryan23
01-09-2009, 10:53 PM
:lol: ok so he was back at work a few days ago, and nothing was said :D although he wasn't exactly as nice as usual :tape: I guess he just thought it waould be a good idea to forget about it - but there's definately an atmosphere now :(

:haha: give it time it will be forgotten back