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There is little accounting for averages in sexual performance, agree or disagree?

2003
01-28-2012, 10:04 PM
I always see people post charts about the countries who have the larger penis sizes etc.

Not so many charts on sexual performance, though google says most men last between 4-6 mins on average.

My point is, isnt it going to matter whom you have been with that dictates your average?

I mean, if a girl has been with 10 guys who only lasted like 4-10 mins, if you come alone and put in 20, youll be a god to her. However, if she had been with 2 or 3 marathon men who lasted an hour, you wont be so impressive. Same deal with penis size.

For me averages are an indicator and nothing more.

How do you see it?

I know us guys put ourselves in this position by going on and on about penis size etc. We contribute to the paranoia with our exagerations and lies no doubt.

I am confident and dont worry toooo much, but I just wonder how ladies and gents see this.

I also think that in the same way as magazines and celebrities make women feel they need to obtain an unrealistic body image, pornographic films give males (and females) a totally unrealistic expectation of what sex should be like.

Yes, porn can be shot in multiple sessions, but that doesnt matter. They are professionals. They should be good at it. People cant and shouldnt compare themselves to it. But I think we do sometimes. That would be like watching a NFL player kick a 60 yard place kick, and you being gutted cause you can "only" kick one from 35 yards, which is still more than most could do.

Steelq
01-28-2012, 10:11 PM
Sometimes i wonder does making polls actually helps you get off?

EliSter
01-28-2012, 10:26 PM
2003 sex threads are epic.

Certinfy
01-28-2012, 11:13 PM
Who cares? I mean personally the best sex I've had has been with girls who I have loved for who they are, not how 'good' they are.

2003
01-29-2012, 12:05 AM
Who cares? I mean personally the best sex I've had has been with girls who I have loved for who they are, not how 'good' they are.

Same here, but its that easy for us guys.

Female orgasms cAn be a little more complex.

leng jai
01-29-2012, 12:35 AM
I am waiting for Bilbo to come and lay the smackdown on this thread.

arm
01-29-2012, 09:38 AM
Please :facepalm: 2003 this is one too many threads on sex/relationships.

Johnny Groove
01-29-2012, 04:17 PM
The shark is getting ready to be jumped, watch out, 2003.

Take it from me.

EddceLLent
01-29-2012, 06:18 PM
I think for most women they think of it more in terms of their own self esteem than trying to make any kind of evaluation of the guy's performance.

It would be some annoying woman who evaluates every man based on his penis size and how long he can last for. Plus, if you put the groundwork in beforehand then you might not even need to last very long.

Sure most women would appreciate a guy who's just generally quite attentive rather than a guy who can last for an hour each time.

GOAT = Fed
01-29-2012, 07:35 PM
2003 is on a roll brah.

2003
01-30-2012, 08:40 AM
I think for most women they think of it more in terms of their own self esteem than trying to make any kind of evaluation of the guy's performance.

It would be some annoying woman who evaluates every man based on his penis size and how long he can last for. Plus, if you put the groundwork in beforehand then you might not even need to last very long.

Sure most women would appreciate a guy who's just generally quite attentive rather than a guy who can last for an hour each time.

I dunno, id hope so, but for most young girls it seems to be all about inches

Naudio Spanlatine
01-30-2012, 02:40 PM
Please :facepalm: 2003 this is one too many threads on sex/relationships.

Sex is a great subject:devil:

Be good Dee be good:angel:

Naudio Spanlatine
01-30-2012, 02:41 PM
I dunno, id hope so, but for most young girls it seems to be all about inches

I agree, its all about the inches and the width and how hard the dick gets inside the girl's tight pussy, yes i kno:angel:

EddceLLent
01-30-2012, 07:24 PM
I agree, its all about the inches and the width and how hard the dick gets inside the girl's tight pussy, yes i kno:angel:

Don't beat around the bush or anything :rolleyes:

I think it's a mistake to view sex in such a way that intercourse itself is where battles are won and lost.

Naudio Spanlatine
01-30-2012, 09:50 PM
Don't beat around the bush or anything :rolleyes:

I think it's a mistake to view sex in such a way that intercourse itself is where battles are won and lost.

sheesh im jus trying to be honest, its how girls think these days:shrug:

i would want that too it shouldnt be a problem for girls to want what they want:cool:

intercourse is more than jus sex, its something that you feel and lust for when you experience it with your partner

leng jai
01-30-2012, 11:35 PM
I agree, its all about the inches and the width and how hard the dick gets inside the girl's tight pussy, yes i kno:angel:

:sad:

Sham Kay
01-30-2012, 11:40 PM
I'm only big in one area: disappointment

v-money
01-30-2012, 11:47 PM
I've found the magic potion for lasting as long as your want in bed. It's herbal and legal in most countries. I don't know if it's a psychological thing but when I'm on it, I consciously have to make an effort to finish. I discovered it purely on accident and I thought this was going to be my secret to landing any girl I wanted. But even though I have this to fall back on, I don't think it has made me any happier. I'm still really bad at picking up girls and even worse at securing a relationship. I mean you can't just pick up a girl by walking up to her and telling her that you can last hours in bed while medicated. I've had somehow managed to land two different sexual partners while using this drug and neither of them turned into any relationship. On top of that I'm now afraid to try sex without using the drug. Magic potions are not really magic potions at all. Girls are complicated and I believe sexual performance is extremely overrated when it comes down to it.

Hewitt =Legend
01-30-2012, 11:53 PM
I only enjoy cuddling so I can't comment anything of use in this fantastic thread.

Naudio Spanlatine
01-31-2012, 12:23 AM
But lemme say this as a non-virgin like myself, i expect a guy to know what he is doing and to give a woman what she wants, if i want you to pound my pussy than do it, if you wanna do crazy tricks that will satisfy your womans desires than go for it. Sex is love and happiness that can mean in so many different ways, some people do it for fun, some people do it for love some people jus do it for other reasons, so of course the sexual performance is the most important thing to sex.

So for example if a guy says that he will rock your world in bed and give you the shotgun of your life, what does a woman who loves sex and gets horny on a daily basis think of him, that hes gonna go for the bang bang and make her go on top of the world and give her the satisfaction that she expects from the guy, but when hes about to have sex with you and he gives you the beginners treatment and not know what a 69 is and not know how to pound a girl in the ass than that guy is nothing but full of shit in a cats clothing, he doesnt know how to have sex, he doesnt know how to please you, hes jus full of blah blah talk and dogshit in her ears:rolleyes:

:sad:

:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

Thats how most girls are in US, its crazy but its so true im sure there some others around the world who feel the same.

leng jai
01-31-2012, 12:46 AM
I only enjoy cuddling so I can't comment anything of use in this fantastic thread.

I've been cultivating my gut for the last 24 years in anticipation of your epic cuddle sessions.

Hewitt =Legend
01-31-2012, 11:14 AM
I've been cultivating my gut for the last 24 years in anticipation of your epic cuddle sessions.

Next year at AO hopefully Hass is still playing. They put him on as the night match on MCA, just as the sun is setting. We can curl up together and down a couple of VBs. I will cuddle the crap out of you.

leng jai
01-31-2012, 11:29 AM
Next year at AO hopefully Hass is still playing. They put him on as the night match on MCA, just as the sun is setting. We can curl up together and down a couple of VBs. I will cuddle the crap out of you.

Hass will play his seven matches on RLA so we'll have to start saving now.

EddceLLent
01-31-2012, 01:53 PM
But lemme say this as a non-virgin like myself, i expect a guy to know what he is doing and to give a woman what she wants, if i want you to pound my pussy than do it, if you wanna do crazy tricks that will satisfy your womans desires than go for it. Sex is love and happiness that can mean in so many different ways, some people do it for fun, some people do it for love some people jus do it for other reasons, so of course the sexual performance is the most important thing to sex.

So for example if a guy says that he will rock your world in bed and give you the shotgun of your life, what does a woman who loves sex and gets horny on a daily basis think of him, that hes gonna go for the bang bang and make her go on top of the world and give her the satisfaction that she expects from the guy, but when hes about to have sex with you and he gives you the beginners treatment and not know what a 69 is and not know how to pound a girl in the ass than that guy is nothing but full of shit in a cats clothing, he doesnt know how to have sex, he doesnt know how to please you, hes jus full of blah blah talk and dogshit in her ears:rolleyes:

I completely reject this (i'm actually not sure whether you're being serious). It's as if you're approaching the whole idea with the stipulation that people never communicate, that men should always know what they're doing and that sex is an activity that should be performed purely for the satisfaction of women. It sounds as if you're easily taken in by men who try to make up for their lack of confidence by indulging in OTT bragging about how manly they are, how good they are in bed...

Also, sex is not love. It's actually quite worrying how often people seem to be having sex when there isn't actual love between them....and then we wonder why some people aren't getting the satisfaction they're apparently craving so desperately! Love brings communication, and it brings a genuine feeling of closeness to someone that extends beyond your sexual desires. Both of these things have the potential to improve sex immeasurably.

Naudio Spanlatine
01-31-2012, 02:27 PM
I completely reject this (i'm actually not sure whether you're being serious). It's as if you're approaching the whole idea with the stipulation that people never communicate, that men should always know what they're doing and that sex is an activity that should be performed purely for the satisfaction of women. It sounds as if you're easily taken in by men who try to make up for their lack of confidence by indulging in OTT bragging about how manly they are, how good they are in bed...

Also, sex is not love. It's actually quite worrying how often people seem to be having sex when there isn't actual love between them....and then we wonder why some people aren't getting the satisfaction they're apparently craving so desperately! Love brings communication, and it brings a genuine feeling of closeness to someone that extends beyond your sexual desires. Both of these things have the potential to improve sex immeasurably.

Yes i agree with you on the love part yes, but its not jus love that some people crave for these days, love is great and love is a passionate thing to have in a relationship, but when it comes to the whole situation, some people like to make the relationship more interesting, more exciting and more exotic, i for one thing love sex, not just love. I gotta have sex once in a while i cant jus forever be romantically in love with someone only, i expect them to wanna have sex too, not jus have some cheesy romantic stuff(well its not really cheesy but if you do that on a daily basis, than yea its a bit cheesy in my liking). And no im not, I just dont get why the hell do some men brag about how good they are in bed, its jus nonsense really its jus talk at the end of the day, i mean i was one of those girls who believe that and he turned out to be my horrible ex. But yea i love passionate love, in my version i want love and sex in a combo:angel:

Filo V.
03-02-2012, 02:30 PM
If a guy ever lasted 4-6 minutes with me, I'd probably laugh him out the door immediately. Or, that's what my first instinct would be. That's bullshit, and there are ways a guy can learn how to control his penis and control cumming too soon. 4-6 minutes is wholly unacceptable on every level. Men should stop blaming women for expecting high standards in sex, and learn how to fuck.

Filo V.
03-02-2012, 02:35 PM
BTW, on the love thing, most people don't have any clue what love is. Most people confuse love with lust, and vice versa. Sex most definitely can be love, and not just "romantic" love but physical love, emotional love, etc., and a relationship is NOT a relationship with romantic, affectionate, loving sex. Sex separates a friendship from a relationship.

2003
03-03-2012, 01:10 AM
If a guy ever lasted 4-6 minutes with me, I'd probably laugh him out the door immediately. Or, that's what my first instinct would be. That's bullshit, and there are ways a guy can learn how to control his penis and control cumming too soon. 4-6 minutes is wholly unacceptable on every level. Men should stop blaming women for expecting high standards in sex, and learn how to fuck.

Bro,

With the greatest of respect..

An ass just doesnt feel as good as a pussy, its easier to last.

Sorry.

Filo V.
03-03-2012, 01:20 AM
True, ass doesn't feel as good as pussy. It feels, and is, significantly better.

2003
03-04-2012, 05:16 AM
Have you tried both?

I find that hard to believe..the ass doesnt self lubricate. Sure it's tight, but thats not everything.

ballbasher101
03-04-2012, 06:08 AM
Reading some of the comments on this thread :superlol:. I'm pissing myself laughing :rolls:. 2003 you are an evil genius :devil:. Most women do not orgasm during penetration, they require lots of foreplay which is just :yawn:. Lets be honest we guys just want to get in there and get out.

tripwires
03-04-2012, 12:04 PM
If a guy ever lasted 4-6 minutes with me, I'd probably laugh him out the door immediately. Or, that's what my first instinct would be. That's bullshit, and there are ways a guy can learn how to control his penis and control cumming too soon. 4-6 minutes is wholly unacceptable on every level. Men should stop blaming women for expecting high standards in sex, and learn how to fuck.

I agree. :angel: I've never had anything that short, or anything less than 15 minutes for that matter.

Reading some of the comments on this thread :superlol:. I'm pissing myself laughing :rolls:. 2003 you are an evil genius :devil:. Most women do not orgasm during penetration, they require lots of foreplay which is just :yawn:. Lets be honest we guys just want to get in there and get out.

How is foreplay boring? That's like half the reason sex is great.

leng jai
03-04-2012, 12:10 PM
Foreplay is better than the "real deal". Most women want to be treated like a goddess and when does that happen? I'll give you a hint, probably not during penetration.

/Bilbo

Filo V.
03-04-2012, 03:09 PM
Have you tried both?

I find that hard to believe..the ass doesnt self lubricate. Sure it's tight, but thats not everything.Yes.

Pussy is slicker and has a more velvety feel which is nice. But ass is tighter, warmer, and more adjustable. Ass being tighter means, obviously, it wraps around your cock easier/more, meaning more stimulation. I know some guys like a little more looseness that comes with pussy, which I DO NOT understand. I don't get the attraction with a loose pussy at all. The only benefit I can think of is that a guy would last longer. But it wouldn't feel as good.

Filo V.
03-04-2012, 03:14 PM
I agree. :angel: I've never had anything that short, or anything less than 15 minutes for that matter.I've had a couple 10 minute fucks..............but they definitely were FUCKS :lol:

4-6 minutes sounds like a pre-teen who cums too fast out of over-excitement as he's never seen a vagina before :o

How is foreplay boring? That's like half the reason sex is great.:rocker:

The stick it in and hump until you get off deal is why so many women question if there are any men out there who know how to please anything sexually beyond their penis :o

ballbasher101
03-04-2012, 04:36 PM
Foreplay is better than the "real deal". Most women want to be treated like a goddess and when does that happen? I'll give you a hint, probably not during penetration.

/Bilbo


That is true for women they enjoy foreplay a lot. I can't speak for all guys but I almost always want to get in there as soon as a possible. It is selfish I know so apologies for that :hug:.

smitty8
03-06-2012, 02:56 AM
The stick it in and hump until you get off deal is why so many women question if there are any men out there who know how to please anything sexually beyond their penis :o

Yes, very true. :worship: There are times you just want it quick, but not every time. Take your time, enjoy it.

If a girl knows what she likes and what gets her off, then you have to TELL the guy what to do, he can't just magically read your mind and do it. I don't know what else to say about this whole length and width etc thing. Sure, it can help, but if you don't know what to do with it, it's not going to really do much. Plus, every girl is different. What works with one will not work with another.

Start da Game
03-06-2012, 05:35 AM
I always see people post charts about the countries who have the larger penis sizes etc.

Not so many charts on sexual performance, though google says most men last between 4-6 mins on average.

My point is, isnt it going to matter whom you have been with that dictates your average?

I mean, if a girl has been with 10 guys who only lasted like 4-10 mins, if you come alone and put in 20, youll be a god to her. However, if she had been with 2 or 3 marathon men who lasted an hour, you wont be so impressive. Same deal with penis size.

For me averages are an indicator and nothing more.

How do you see it?

I know us guys put ourselves in this position by going on and on about penis size etc. We contribute to the paranoia with our exagerations and lies no doubt.

I am confident and dont worry toooo much, but I just wonder how ladies and gents see this.

I also think that in the same way as magazines and celebrities make women feel they need to obtain an unrealistic body image, pornographic films give males (and females) a totally unrealistic expectation of what sex should be like.

Yes, porn can be shot in multiple sessions, but that doesnt matter. They are professionals. They should be good at it. People cant and shouldnt compare themselves to it. But I think we do sometimes. That would be like watching a NFL player kick a 60 yard place kick, and you being gutted cause you can "only" kick one from 35 yards, which is still more than most could do.

2003, i am enjoying your threads......2003's threads are understandable.....it's clear that he is sex hungry and this is exactly how i felt too even until 2 years ago.....surely everyone must have passed this phase.....always thinking about sizes, performance time and planning list of things to do when i find a woman.....i did it with one chick in life so far......it was great and she told me that she's okay with me but i should slow down a bit and stop biting.....does biting put them off? gentle bites.....somebody more experienced can answer that for me.....i don't know if that was one of the reasons but we split up 8 months back after a year long fun.....i miss her so badly and i am back to being what i was 2 years ago.....

i feel like 30s is when we really mature and know how to play the ultimate sport in this world.....or maybe some are already experts here in their 20s i don't know.....but i found it hard to control the excitement.....maybe a couple more years will fine tune the proceedings.....

2003, i agree with you on the performance part too.....those charts are bullshit.....nobody ever pulls out and shows his dick for measurement except a negligible few who belong to porn industry.....

also nobody ever performs in front of an assessment team unless they belong to the porn industry.....those charts are based on myths.....

BroTree123
03-08-2012, 05:16 AM
How charming :facepalm:.