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Friend's betrayal

samanosuke
12-13-2011, 04:39 PM
Have you ever been betrayed from someone who you considered as best buddy ? All the time, he was acting like everything is great but at the same time he was ambushing you behind your back . Have you ever been really disappointed in someone and how did you react on that betrayal ? Did you forgive him/her , if you did, have you ever again had full confidence in him/her like before betrayal ?

Nikki♥
12-13-2011, 04:48 PM
Whenever something like that happens to me, I hire a hitman to deal with the problem. :shrug:

bokehlicious
12-13-2011, 04:50 PM
Have been many times......

..... on MTF :p

GOAT = Fed
12-13-2011, 04:50 PM
I'm here for you buddy, if you need me any time.

Gagsquet
12-13-2011, 04:51 PM
:haha:

Corey Feldman
12-13-2011, 04:52 PM
whoever did this to you Saman

i deal with him

Naudio Spanlatine
12-13-2011, 04:52 PM
Have been many times......

..... on MTF :p

:hysteric: :devil: oh not just mtf but also everywhere for me:ras:

GOAT = Fed
12-13-2011, 04:53 PM
whoever did this to you Saman

i deal with him

Well first, you'll have to travel to Croatia to deal with the obssessive Barca fan.

Sophocles
12-13-2011, 04:53 PM
A sad day for MTF.

Nikki♥
12-13-2011, 04:55 PM
whoever did this to you Saman

i deal with him

:haha:

:hug:

GOAT = Fed
12-13-2011, 05:00 PM
BTW no manz would dare betray me, cuz I'm a hench manz, innit.

Nikki♥
12-13-2011, 05:02 PM
http://www.wakeworld.com/MB/Discus/messages/65921/716845.jpg

This thread needs a bit of ass.

Corey Feldman
12-13-2011, 05:03 PM
Nikki when in Bali :hearts:

GOAT = Fed
12-13-2011, 05:08 PM
This thread needs a bit of manlyness:
http://cdn.simplyshredded.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/2-2.jpg

Nikki♥
12-13-2011, 05:09 PM
The OP is 10000000 times sexier than these guys. :ras:

Betty
12-13-2011, 05:11 PM
Have you ever been betrayed from someone who you considered as best buddy ? All the time, he was acting like everything is great but at the same time he was ambushing you behind your back . Have you ever been really disappointed in someone and how did you react on that betrayal ? Did you forgive him/her , if you did, have you ever again had full confidence in him/her like before betrayal ?

yes, here in mtf and no i wont forget or forgive:D and no more trust for sure :lol:

GOAT = Fed
12-13-2011, 05:13 PM
The OP is 10000000 times sexier than these guys. :ras:

Well these guys have been on the juice, obviously, but OP hasn't disclosed his pictures and seeing that he is going through such an emotional and stressing period of his life atm, after one of his friends literally (and metaphorically) stabbed him in the back, he is unlikely to.

I wish the OP a full and speedy recovery and recommend him to visit his nearest psychiatrist if he struggles to adjust to his new life without his back-daggering friend.

samanosuke
12-13-2011, 05:13 PM
I feel even more sad now when some people trying to make a joke from someone's pain

GOAT = Fed
12-13-2011, 05:14 PM
yes, here in mtf and no i wont forget or forgive:D and no more trust for sure :lol:

I'll never betray you Betz :hug:

Betty
12-13-2011, 05:15 PM
I feel even more sad now when some people trying to make a joke from someone's pain

yes, dont respect the other's pain is very cruel
but this mark only that that person was not a true friend so better lose person like him/her

GOAT = Fed
12-13-2011, 05:15 PM
I feel even more sad now when some people trying to make a joke from someone's pain

I know, man. Like I said, I'm here for you brah, always there for support.

Nikki♥
12-13-2011, 05:21 PM
yes, here in mtf and no i wont forget or forgive:D and no more trust for sure :lol:

Read below, Betty Boop.

Well these guys have been on the juice, obviously, but OP hasn't disclosed his pictures and seeing that he is going through such an emotional and stressing period of his life atm, after one of his friends literally (and metaphorically) stabbed him in the back, he is unlikely to.

I wish the OP a full and speedy recovery and recommend him to visit his nearest psychiatrist if he struggles to adjust to his new life without his back-daggering friend.

:o
:spit:

I feel even more sad now when some people trying to make a joke from someone's pain

Awwww, I posted a nice butt for you which was definitely not to make fun of you. Or do you prefer boobs? :aplot:

Everything will be fine. One day everything is going your way, the other your life seems to be a complete failure. Just try to shrug off the bad moments and people mistreating you because no matter how many dark clouds seem to be hanging above your head, the sun will come out again very soon.

Cheer up, even the ones who voted against you today will continue being your friends. Sometimes it is hard to make a right decision knowing that it might end up hurting someone they care about. Still you have to take a decision no matter how bad it feels. I'm sure the evil one is really feeling sorry now and is wishing he could make it undone and ease your pain. Find it in your heart to forgive them. You don't need to do it now, take your time. Time heals all wounds.

I was also disappointed by someone really, really bad this summer and I was the last one to find out about it... I forgave him anyway and now I feel like it was the best thing I could have ever done. We have built up some special relationship which has gifted me countless beautiful moments. If I had held a grudge against him forever, this wouldn't have been possible.

Corey Feldman
12-13-2011, 05:28 PM
nevr knew it meant so much to you Samosuke :eek: i love it, going nuts over pop con is nothing to be ashamed of ;)

Clydey
12-13-2011, 05:29 PM
Yeah. When Arsen backstabbed me.

GOAT = Fed
12-13-2011, 05:32 PM
nevr knew it meant so much to you Samosuke :eek: i love it, going nuts over pop con is nothing to be ashamed of ;)

You destroyed his life :sobbing::sad:

Corey Feldman
12-13-2011, 05:35 PM
i'll vote him every other match after this day!

even if he plays Betty

Nikki♥
12-13-2011, 05:37 PM
even if he plays Betty

Especially then. :o

samanosuke
12-13-2011, 06:02 PM
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Nikki♥
12-13-2011, 06:03 PM
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Corey Feldman
12-13-2011, 06:04 PM
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v-money
12-13-2011, 06:08 PM
I guess this may be a different case, but I'm of afraid of stabbing one of my friends in the back, a guy who was my college roommate for the last 3 years. He's liked this girl for like over 2 years and she has shown no interest in him and last year I even told him not to invest his time in perusing her. I thought it was good advice because it was going nowhere with him and this girl. He was just obsessing over her for way too long, even though there are plenty of fish in the sea.

This year him and I live in different apartments, but the irony is that I've started to get very close to his former crush. I know she also likes me, but one of the few things that's holding me back from starting a relationship with her is the fear of stabbing him in the back. Furthermore, he may think that I purposely tried to talk him out of perusing this girl and then stole her from him.

...But the point is that I still feel that I gave him good advise and my actions toward this girl are not out of spite towards my friend. Me and her are simply more compatible. So in this situation it may look like I'm stabbing him in the back but I'm genuinely not trying to. I don't know your exact situation but oftentimes these cases of betrayal are just misunderstandings. There may be more to the situation than your are seeing.

If you are for some reason upset about the popularity contest just remember that you are going up against another really good poster. I definitely would have voted for you in other match-ups. And on top of that it is just a contest on an internet forum. It may sound harsh, but worry more about maintaining good relationships in real life and staying popular among those group of friends.

Johnny Groove
12-13-2011, 09:00 PM
If its really eating you up inside so much, v-money, just talk to your friend about getting with that girl. Don't ask, just announce. "I am with so and so."

And see how he reacts. And then react to his reaction.

In the end, all will work out fine. Most likely, he'll be fine with it. May even help him get over her.

samanosuke
12-13-2011, 09:01 PM
Groove can you copy what v-money wrote ? can't see, he is on ignore list

Johnny Groove
12-13-2011, 09:14 PM
Come on, mate, remove him from your ignore list. v-money is quality, even if he voted against you.

samanosuke
12-13-2011, 09:21 PM
business first, then joy

tripwires
12-14-2011, 12:46 AM
v-money, it sounds like the best thing to do is to have an honest conversation with your friend. Talking about things is always the best way to approach a potentially thorny situation. Good luck.

Samanosuke - :hug:. Even though you probably won't see this as I'm on your ignore list. :sad:

Topspindoctor
12-14-2011, 12:56 AM
Your first mistake is trusting anyone in the first place - true friends don't exist, only people with similar interests, who sometimes help each other.

Betrayal? Only because you thought of someone as your "friend", does not mean the person harbored similar thoughts, it was a deception all alone for some benefit.

v-money
12-14-2011, 01:59 AM
Thanks for the advice folks. I was definitely going to talk to my friend about it but I didn't want to stress him out before his standardized exams.

Betrayal is really an interesting subject because it depends what perspective you view it from. Hopefully samanosuke will realize that us voting against him is not betrayal. I really didn't think that he would be the poster to get dramatic over this contest.

gaitare
12-15-2011, 08:42 PM
Have you ever been betrayed from someone who you considered as best buddy ? All the time, he was acting like everything is great but at the same time he was ambushing you behind your back . Have you ever been really disappointed in someone and how did you react on that betrayal ? Did you forgive him/her , if you did, have you ever again had full confidence in him/her like before betrayal ?

Dude, you are getting screwed over all over the place lately. First this, just a few days later that unbelievable popcon series of betrayals, life does suck, eh?

samanosuke
12-15-2011, 08:43 PM
yes, specially if one is connected with the other

Johnny Groove
12-15-2011, 09:15 PM
Don't worry, sama. You will find a good woman soon and she will repair you.

samanosuke
12-15-2011, 09:20 PM
eh my Johnny, women will always be there, friends won't

Johnny Groove
12-15-2011, 09:28 PM
Real friends are diamonds, man, I know, believe me.

It ain't easy, the only thing you need is time. :hug:

Maybe a time transplant. :p

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Sophocles
12-15-2011, 09:28 PM
eh my Johnny, women will always be there, friends won't

Too right.

Add to the roll-call of shame:

Commander Data,
& Pirata.

Now I know how Julius Caesar felt. Cassius in this case was Jolan Gago, with his false propaganda (out-of-context quotation in his sig), poisoning Brutus/CD's mind.

JolánGagó
12-15-2011, 09:32 PM
I think my sig appropriately reflects the context.

Corey Feldman
12-15-2011, 09:34 PM
eh my Johnny, women will always be there, friends won'tho's before bro's eh ;)

Sophocles
12-15-2011, 09:40 PM
I think my sig appropriately reflects the context.

I don't.

The context - my annual posting in the Rafachat thread during the popularity contest - makes the irony plain.

Commander Data
12-15-2011, 10:09 PM
Too right.

Add to the roll-call of shame:

Commander Data,
& Pirata.

Now I know how Julius Caesar felt. Cassius in this case was Jolan Gago, with his false propaganda (out-of-context quotation in his sig), poisoning Brutus/CD's mind.

:hug:

I was ironic myself, I like you. It was a close call, I just talk more with Arsen..

JolánGagó
12-15-2011, 10:10 PM
So let people go there and read.

Stop whining, a man of your age must be fully aware one is slave to his words, master of his silences.

Sunset of Age
12-16-2011, 12:55 AM
Rather 'funny' to see certain posters joining in over here.. NOT

GOAT = Fed
12-16-2011, 01:04 AM
So let people go there and read.

Stop whining, a man of your age must be fully aware one is slave to his words, master of his silences.

lolwut?

Sophocles
12-16-2011, 09:55 AM
So let people go there and read.

Stop whining, a man of your age must be fully aware one is slave to his words, master of his silences.

Well that's very true.

wee
12-23-2011, 08:13 AM
Have you ever been betrayed from someone who you considered as best buddy ? All the time, he was acting like everything is great but at the same time he was ambushing you behind your back . Have you ever been really disappointed in someone and how did you react on that betrayal ? Did you forgive him/her , if you did, have you ever again had full confidence in him/her like before betrayal ?
forget about regaining full confidence in him/her, something similar occurred to me also, and what I did was just move on in your life and treat him/her as a passer-by.

superslam77
12-24-2011, 04:57 PM
happened to me too before and more than once :(

santa won't bring them any presents this year.