If this was a thread you started, it does not seem to be anywhere.
That means it was probably merged. You need more details for me to find it in that case.
No, I didn't start it. I seem to remember that it was Alex999 who started it.
I posted there and got a good-rep by Sham Kay, so I have a link to the thread with the rep, that's why I know the title of the thread started like this: "ouch, this is so harsh...".
But when I click on the link, it says that I don't have permission to access the page. Also, all my posts on that thread have disappeared from my list of posts. So it doesn't look as if it's been merged.