I have come back to MTF a month ago after being banned because of the wishing death thing, I was a little bit angry because I like the forum, I have been around for many time and I as far as I know, the ban was wrong to me.
I didn't want to post anything about it cause Im ok now but my suggest for the admins is: if you dont want to change this ridiculous rule then BAN THE WORD KILL/KILLING
in the VBulletin's admin CP and no one else will be banned wrongly. I was banned by saying "someone should kill Gago (Argentina's national football team) by wearing that t-shirt"
or something like that ... you dont judge de context, you just judge de word "kill" and that is nonsense to me, If you tell me I wished death to some user with hatred ok, but I was only making fun of Gago.
the result of this? Banned for 3 months.
Another suggest: If you ban someone at least let him see the private message you send to banned ppl (when you are banned you have no access to control panel/messages/anything) I did not know why I was banned after I made contact to some admin (not an easy task when you are unable to watch forum index).
It would be nice and open mind if you dont delete this thread.