I`m sorry to hear of the death of your father
My condolences. Mimi you have to be very strong, but I`m sure you will overcome any difficulties.
My grandmother suffered a stroke on August 31, 2011. Her one hand and one leg were paralyzed. She was lying in hospital, later at home. She died on November 5, 2012. She was 86, but I know that losing someone from the family is always painful, very painful.