I am just teasing. I waited for many of the same reasons
Busy with my career really. I maybe waited a couple of extra years more than I should of. (honestly I was a bit scared as I knew it would be so life changing). I am glad I had my boys- best thing I ever did really. I adore them.
I know you were
Yeah, it is tricky, trying to become your own person on the one hand and starting a family while you´re still relatively young on the other. I guess you are never completely ready for it - you´ll just have to the plunge
I´m glad having children worked out so well for you
Neither did my parents, but they faced the challenge.
I think when these things happen to you, you adapt. The thought of having a child right now really scares me, but Iam 99% sure that if it happened, I would adapt really quick and in only a few months I would be thinking "how did I ever think I couldn't do this"?
Not saying that being a parent is easy though.
But I just think that people adapt. Obviously, in my case, I am predicting a good adaptation because I have a pretty good support system (family).
Of course, you can adapt (you have to adapt even). If I would have a child tomorrow, I would adapt to it. It forces you to grow up. Still, it would be less easy for me now than in say 5 years.
Well, one can´t always have the luxury of family living closeby when you get kids sadly.