So let´s see if I got it: you would have the baby now probably, because despite the hardships you know that the love you would feel for him/her would win out. Meanwhile, 18 yo you would probabably have had the baby and barely considered abortion, because you would have believed the sanctity of life overrides all practical concerns. In essence, you have gained a better understanding of what having a child would entail and you are less ideologically opposed to abortion now. How did I do?
Good night Dr. Sue
This is all hypothetical of course.
But no. I.meant a different thing. I would very likely have the baby if it were now. As an 18 year old, beforw sounds even more absurd, I don't know What I would have done, But being 22 and looking back, I really wish that girl would have considered abortion as an option if at any point She would have got pregnant. Understand?
Basically right now, I am on the verge of becoming a doctor, so I could work things out. Finish med school in time and start working.normally. But had I got pregnant at 18 and had the baby, I probably would have had to drop out and life would have been a huge mess and the future uncertain.