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#1 · (Edited)
Throughout my late teens and 20's all I got was the most stunning women, now I'm older this has waned somewhat and my desire has lapsed to actually sleep with women. Surely some of you have met this wall, what have you done to counter it?

When I was working the bars, a lass called Katie Lea wrote he number down with *** ash (classy) on a beer mat, that lass is Kitty Lea, easy to look up on google. I have been used to 10/10 lasses, one model I was with turned down Alan Smith when he played for Manchester United, just when you get older the girls aint so attractive. I just have lost that desire to get with anyone not perfect.
 
#2 ·
I know I keep getting 16, 17, 18 year olds after me, but at 32 this aint right. There's a cutoff point. Thing is I aint so attracted to lasses my age unless they have kids or are married, then it's pointless. At what age do you cut off from the youngsters or do you get what you can for as long as you can?
 
#4 ·
Women are in their physical prime from 18-24. What's not right about banging a woman in her prime at 18? Powerful men throughout history have always sought women in that age range of 18-24. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it, even if you are 60 yourself. As long as she is a consenting adult, the opinions of our current extremely feministic society, which seeks to curb masculinity and testosterone, should not deter you.

In regards to your sex drive, check out viagra.
 
#5 ·
Crystal meth
 
#6 · (Edited)
Don't really know what's wrong with you, mate. Maybe go for guys or trans girls?

I know I keep getting 16, 17, 18 year olds after me, but at 32 this aint right. There's a cutoff point. Thing is I aint so attracted to lasses my age unless they have kids or are married, then it's pointless. At what age do you cut off from the youngsters or do you get what you can for as long as you can?
Nothing wrong with a 32 year old man with an 18 year old girl. You know all these young girls have their tumblr and instagram posts saying shit like: "He's like 30, but he's so hot", boom 50,000 likes.

As a man in your 30's, this is your time. You have the money and the experience to do what you want with who you want and so on. Sure, girls your age may not be the same because they are looking for someone to settle down and have kids with LIKE RIGHT NOW.

Split the difference and find a mid-20's girl. Still young enough to want to have fun and not get settled down immediately but also mature enough to know that she is looking for someone for long term. Maybe not right this second but in a few years, yeah.

Real question is, what do YOU want?

Women are in their physical prime from 18-24. What's not right about banging a woman in her prime at 18? Powerful men throughout history have always sought women in that age range of 18-24. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it, even if you are 60 yourself. As long as she is a consenting adult, the opinions of our current extremely feministic society, which seeks to curb masculinity and testosterone, should not deter you.

In regards to your sex drive, check out viagra.
Yes, Julius Caesar was like 52 when he got together and had sex and a baby with 21 year old Cleopatra. Even her 2nd husband Marc Antony was 42 to her 28 at the time. Jeff Goldblum was 62 when he married 32 year old wife, Alec Baldwin's wife was 28 when he started dating her, at 53. Donald Trump was 52 when he began dating Melania, who was 28 at the time. So this kind of thing has been going on for thousands of years and continues today. These numbers make Wawrinka, 31, and Vekic, 20, seem like not even that big of a deal.

Agreed on everything, except Viagra. Don't take that pharmaceutical shit. Take Cordyceps Mushrooms. Much more natural and used for millenia. Trust me, your dick, balls, overall blood flow, and lungs will thank me.
 
#7 ·
Yes, Julius Caesar was like 52 when he got together and had sex and a baby with 21 year old Cleopatra. Even her 2nd husband Marc Antony was 42 to her 28 at the time. Jeff Goldblum was 62 when he married 32 year old wife, Alec Baldwin's wife was 28 when he started dating her, at 53. Donald Trump was 52 when he began dating Melania, who was 28 at the time. So this kind of thing has been going on for thousands of years and continues today. These numbers make Wawrinka, 31, and Vekic, 20, seem like not even that big of a deal.
Hit the nail right on the head there mate. If all these alpha men doesn't inspire the OP then nothing will. TBH what's really killing men today is the feministic and extremely gynocentric society we live in.

A woman can be independent, date and fuck whomsoever she desires but men must adhere to standards that go against their natural instincts, such as dating women their age or older. The more men like the OP are shamed into accepting these standards, the more men will become laughing stocks in society.

I say that as long as what you're doing is not illegal, who gives a shit what society thinks!

Agreed on everything, except Viagra. Don't take that pharmaceutical shit. Take Cordyceps Mushrooms. Much more natural and used for millenia. Trust me, your dick, balls, overall blood flow, and lungs will thank me.
Well, I'm not so sure on the efficacy of natural treatments such as the ones you have mentioned. Have you tried any of these? I wonder what porn guys take to stay constantly hard 24/7, as I agree with you that depending on viagra all the time will surely destroy your body.
 
#11 ·
Yeah, younger women definitely like older fellas, it's obvious their lust from a male perspective but in todays world it's frowned upon.

I've used a substitue for viagra that keeps you up better that I got off the internet, a polish lad told me about it. Thing is it kinda makes you feel a bit trippy in a disconcerting kind of way, and I always develop a blocked nasal passage and flu like symptoms the following day, don't think it's been properly tested but you can ejaculate like 6 times in a row without losing the hardness. I think they're called Kamagra, but they have nasty side-effects so I've got one left which I'm a bit apprehensive to take.
 
#12 ·
Carefully planned thread for advertisement. :haha:
 
#20 ·
Last month, I went on a strict diet eating very little carbs and doing cardio 3-4 days per week and my libido went down significantly.

As a result, I didn't even feel the desire to have sex which was probably a bit frustrating to my SO. We still did it but I would have been just as fine without sex during that period
 
#21 ·
Last month, I went on a strict diet eating very little carbs and doing cardio 3-4 days per week and my libido went down significantly.

As a result, I didn't even feel the desire to have sex which was probably a bit frustrating to my SO. We still did it but I would have been just as fine without sex during that period
Well, duh :facepalm:

I've never understood the "low carb" diets and bullshit. CARBS ARE FUEL FOR THE BODY'S FUNCTIONS. If you don't have them, you are FUCKED. Ok, sure, you lose weight and you might look trim, but you are very unhealthy and as you said, no libido.

No fapping for a month. Exercise every day.

You will turn into a hungry chimp by the end of the month
Also unhealthy. What is up with some of these trends. You need at least 3-4 ejaculations a week for a normal functioning prostate. Even exercising every day is too much. 5-6 days is plenty, even 3-4 for the general population.
 
#22 ·
Chewing tobacco, I'm not even kiddin, there's one of the most famous movies quotes about it:

Sgt. Blain Cooper: Bunch of slack-jawed ******* around here. This stuff will make you a god damned sexual Tyrannosaurus, just like me.

Poncho: [holds up his grenade launcher] Yeah, strap this on your "sore ass", Blain.


 
#24 · (Edited)
I haven't lasted anywhere near a month, probably not a week without fapping since I was 11 and the first time I watched Sharon Stone in Basic Instinct. I don't know where those guys find the will power. I have to say after a hard days work or regular cardiac excercise the little fella does seem perkier, but maybe not for as long as I'd like. I think being in long term 'closer to friends' relationships doesn't do your drive much good as you know it'll be the same old same old, variety is the spice of life.

It's obviously a frustrating subject, sometimes I've been aroused by a woman that I've just met, everything fine and stiff then as soon as it goes in my mind is like this aint doing much and it starts the 'it's not you it's me convo', when often it's a bit of both, like maybe her drawing blood from your back with her nails isn't the most erotic experience IMO
 
#29 ·
It's a well known fact that the brain gets hooked up to porn and the images we see on the screen trick it into having it belive those are real women, as a consequence with extended use of porn the brain gets too used to it to the point where real women don't cause any arousal at all in the 'wired' subjects.
 
#32 · (Edited)
Was about to say that as possibility just seeing this thread.Being addictive to porn and watching porn isn't really good for your brain.You see something,than you just go for more,trying to find something "more exciting " to give you same amount of dopamine for your brain,than you are stucked in porn world with bad sex life/your D isn't "amused" seeing real woman and reality.
 
#30 ·
OP, if nothing is working out for you then sign up for a gym membership ASAP and start doing squats. Scientifically proven to boost testosterone:



Make a complete overhaul of your diet, make sure to eat lean fats, protein and clean carbs. Eg: Wholemeal bread and porridge, ample of fruits and veggies, chicken breast, steak, lamb and pork.
 
#34 ·
fall in love, and sleep with, Eva Green.
 
#35 ·
It's not just porn though that can increase expectations, it's body hugging dresses and make-up that get your expectations up, then the next morning you see them hastily putting on something. But on my recent trip to the honesty of sexuality, I know this 16 year old that looks trapped in time wanting me to be on her side. She's a beautiful lass but to walk with her down town I'd be arrested.
 
#36 ·
A lass that I liked and showed mutual feelings for has her dad come at me with a body shaking full of adrenaline. His daughter was ashamed of his actions but I guess in the UK law you need to be 18 to act as you please. Sad really, he took a displeasure most likely because when he was 32 he didn't get that opportunity, frustrated father.
 
#42 ·
A pathetic thread indeed. Even worse than "I spent $10000 for a dinner in a Russian restaurant" thread from the same troll OP.
 
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