Originally Posted by Langers
Well I turn 18 soon and I still haven't had a gf. I have very little confidence, even when I talk to a slightly attractive girl I just get so nervous and don’t know what to say. I’m reasonably confident when talking to my friends but when I’m around some girls I try so hard not to stuff up I make things worse.
I liked this girl at school for quite a while and after putting it off for ages I finally decided to ask her out. The response I got was ‘you’re a good mate’, the worst line ever as far as I’m concerned. I just can’t seem to get anywhere, hopefully things will change. Good luck mate.
Damn thats a killer huh
Would really piss me off if I heard that one. But I doubt thats possible, because I dont want to be friends with someone who I am interested so I guess they would sense that beforehand.
I guess I am in a similar situation, I havent really had a gf before either. Although, I am not too concerned. I have yet to find anyone worth being with, well apart from one girl who didnt seem to be interested. I dont go out, and dont really meet girls either, so there isnt really any occasions where I will meet someone. I find the problem is when I first meet them, thats what I struggle with. IE Approaching them, and saying something that isnt worthless and make it sound like they are being pestered
but once thats over, I am comfortable enough.
So I guess its a combination of me being quite unsociable and my high standards
But as I said, I am not too worried as I dont really "need" friends or a partner, it would be nice to have a gf, but I dont want or need friends; but its not essential or the thing that matters most to me. I'd rather be alone than with someone I don’t think is exactly “very special”. I'm waiting for someone who I am really into. One day hopefully I will find someone