I tend to agree with you, but I'm one of those people who have a hard time to recognize they would really love to have a more interesting social life and specially meet more women ( I have had couple of gf on the past) but thats has been too few and far in between to fulfill my desires.
Well, from this message, it seems that you're not completely content with your current social life. In that case, I think you need to make a change or some changes in your life so that you can improve your social life. I know that it won't be easy but you have to do something about it. If you feel like you can't make the right changes by yourself, then I think you should try and get some help from other people who you know. I'm sure they would be happy to assist you.
I understand that it can be hard sometimes to change things. I'm autistic and I like doing things that are familiar to me. I can follow a routine for a long time without feeling the need to change anything. However, I realise that I need to try new things and face new challenges if I'm to develop as a person. My biggest issue with this is finding the motivation and desire to try something new. I, though, have been very fortunate in that my parents have helped me by suggesting different things that I could try out. Anyway, I hope that you can sort out your issues and have a better and more fulfilling social life in the future.