A welcome injection of reality. Too funny.
You guys are taking that saying too literally.
Well I mean come on! Telling the guy in the hypothetical situation to be himself will probably mean he'll be stuttering and probably be having a heart attack talking to anyone let a lone a girl he likes
. Anyway, in my opinion, men put too weight on what women think of them.
Not a single fuk should be given, if I'm being perfectly honest. Obviously being a total social loser inept of making simple communication with fellow humans isn't a good thing at all but your motivation to improve shouldn't just solely come because of girls. It should be because you want to better yourself as a person.
I don't really think that is the problem, though.
If you know that your normal personality and habits aren't going to impress somebody, make the effort to change them, or if not, pretend.