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Psychological Help and Self Help Thread. Come on in.

If you have any problems going on in your life and feel you want a little guidance come on in! .
I'm a very reasonable person who is willing to help others. I have a background in Psychology and am good with helping others.

So please if you want to share, you may, I will listen with all ears . Keep it anonymous as possible.

Those who don't give a *#*!@ and want to say "Mug Thread", or "Man Up" there is plenty of other threads for you to do that.
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Are you psychologically stable?

If so, how come you are in MTF? Or is this some early campaigning for the ACC next year?
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Yeah I am, I'm being genuine . Please anything. Getting annoyed with Family, Friends are acting weird, Noticing weird emotions. Feeling a little down. Willing to talk.

Also, to be honest I don't even know what ACC is, other then that it is causing unnecessary drama :P.
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good thread Kowchi! I've gotten annoyed with my family for most of my life, so I sympathize.

What kind of emotions are you feeling if you don't mind me asking? Are the irritations with your family a new occurrence? or does this happen more often?
And do you think your friends acting weird might be a reaction to you feeling a little down? or do you think it's the other way around?

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Ohh I was referring to others, if they had this issue. Right now I'm pretty stable and can't complain. Though I appreciate you wanting to help.

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i hate my job, i rarely use the word hate but i really hate my job, im searching for a new one but It requires patience.
then i will have a new job i will be much more happy.

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Nice idea for a thread. Thank you.

I am more-or-less okay when it comes to temper, but I do 'lose it' occasionally and that is part of growing up.

My biggest problem is poor self-confidence, though.
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oh fair enough

Bulldog, that is my biggest problem as well.
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My biggest problem is poor self-confidence, though.
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oh fair enough

Bulldog, that is my biggest problem as well.
i think everyone deal with this problem, if someone say no i tend to believe he is lying..

The difference is the intensity and how we let it affect us

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i think everyone deal with this problem, if someone say no i tend to believe he is lying..

The difference is the intensity and how we let it affect us

brave to say it
Thank you, nice thing to say

I mostly agree with you. There's always things that you know you are good at, but when it comes to your personality, I think noone is 100% confident of him/herself. There's also a big difference in how people express low self-esteem.

For instance I will never say that I am really good at something, whereas my brother says he is good at everything he's ever done, while we are both equally insecure.

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Top notch thread. There's no shame in opening up.

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Thank you, nice thing to say
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I think I'm starting to develop OCD or show some of it's symptoms.

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I think I'm starting to develop OCD or show some of it's symptoms.
could you elaborate abit? what kind of OCD-related behaviour are you talking about? Do you think the OCD is related to certain events in your life?
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oh fair enough

Bulldog, that is my biggest problem as well.
If you don't mind me asking, what sort of problems do you yourself encounter with poor self-confidence? With me, it kind of leads to isolation from others, especially when things aren't going my way.

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i think everyone deal with this problem, if someone say no i tend to believe he is lying..

The difference is the intensity and how we let it affect us

brave to say it
Cheers Amber! I agree, but I think some people are more affected by poor self-esteem than others.
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