No, I'm not saying be the asshole. Never. There's a huge difference here.
Oh okay, wouldn't be being me if I did become one, so I guess that's good.
Never go there, even though it may seem like there are some guys that are assholes and still pull girls like crazy it's mostly just because of their great looks (remember that girls are after aesthetics just as much as guys are). If it seems like those guys are the only ones that are successful, you're just experiencing tunnel vision. Snap out of it. Quick.
I do need to snap out of it as that's exactly how I think. Weird thing is me and my mate are there and literally all the girls love him, but yet my guy friends tell me I'm better looking than him which just makes it weird. But then he is really confident and inbetween nice and asshole I guess.
[quote]Find the right balance and in your way into doing this don't put too much pressure on yourself. Just relax and when the nice girls come around you'll even have some funny stuff to talk about regarding asking girls out.
[quote] Okay I'll do that, don't even know why I'm getting so stressed about one girl anyway.
Be smart about it, and also be friendly enough. Other than looks, girls love confidence and a friendly boy with connections and aspirations. (more on that latter part when you grow older)
Well I can connect with her as she's the same age and from the same ethnicity and apparently we're studying a few things that are similar, so that's a good start.
She may actually feel more comfortable with her friends as a buffer.
Ah, I guess both ways are good then, guess I need to see if my friends are bothered to help me on this though.