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Re: Daddy why dont you love me?

Coz he is a mug father. Sorry for saying that Dee but you obviously deserve a much better father.
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I don't know what to say. You can be sure that you are not the only one who grew up without a real father but with someone completely selfish and unable to face the responsibilities that come with raising a child... and more importantly giving the child the life it really deserves. Irresponsible and self-absorbed people like him should never have children in the first place because they are way too caught up in their own misery to see what having a child really is. They see it a burden but in reality it is a blessing, an opportunity to give their daughter or son the love, the home, the comfort and the happiness they probably never had in their own childhood.

Your father doesn't deserve a daughter like you, he deserves being punished with the same kind of ignorance and negligence he treated you with in those times when you needed a father. And most importantly, don't see the reason for his behavior in yourself. You have nothing to do with him being unable to grow up, act like an adult and live up to his family's expectations. It is not that any of you expected much from him, still he was unable to give it to you. Maybe one day he will realize how wrong he was in doing what he did but it will be too late then.

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Am I the only one to consider this stuff is awkward.
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Re: Daddy why dont you love me?

Dee - Sorry to hear about your tough family situation. Unfortunately we can't choose our parents, and it sounds like your dad isn't at all fit to be a father. It's not your fault. You still have your mom, your siblings, your friends and people here on MTF.

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That was tough to digest (in more ways than one) . I really don't know what to say except....sorry . I like, literally, have no words. I can relate to this.

I have a dilemma too with my parents as well in regards to "loving" their own sons and daughters . All I can say is, I have this massive rift between me and my parents. It's a shame they don't understand the real nature of parenting. They are (my dad especially) obnoxious, uncivilized, dirty and shows no respect or curtesy whatsoever. All my mum does is yell at me and keep reminding me of irrelevant shit, thinking that I'm still like 3 years old. There's never a time my parents believed in me, just berated me for everything I did....I even got abused when I was 5-6. It's incredible tough to say but I really do hate my dad with a passion. My mum, not so much, but my fury with her exists. I've tried suggesting counselling with them but they just I'm a stupid, crazy fool who thinks that's more evidence of my "stupidity" and my "uselessness". I wish they'd love me, but they can't accept it. And neither can I. That's why I am who I am today.

But I try and shrug it off, keep fighting through everyday no matter how hard it is to deal with these sick people. Sometimes I feel like they aren't even my parents...I'm probably a foster child...but I guess that's how things are. To be honest, I'm learning a good lesson in this and I'm taking positives out of it. Helps me with my patience, helps me to become kinder, more of a listener. They are models of who no one else SHOULD be. Anyways...like Rafa says "It's the moment to keep fighting".

I cherish the day when I finally find independence and start a whole new life on my own. Because sadly, I've given up on them.
BroTree I'm glad you're taking positives out of your crappy situation. The day when you're independent and free of them will be a great day.

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That sort of story Makes me glad I never met my dad

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Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww you guys thank you so much, i really appreciated

And yes some people say i have to put it in paragraphs, but to me thats too complicated, i didnt get a good grade in english class

But anyways, i usually didnt want to do this at all, i usually keep it within myself, but i realized that it was time for me to let it out, i dunno why i let it out on MTF, but yea i wanted to just let it out, i didnt care really what people thought i didnt want anybody to feel sorry for me because i got use to it, i really have been made front of my whole life. But there is a time where you have to realized that people will feel sorry for you, you cant just say that no one feels sorry for you because you think that people shouldnt.

I read every post in this thread and i wanna give you so many and

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Re: Daddy why dont you love me?

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u have the unconditional love of yr mom forever
if yr dad had drug 's problems he could not love himself so sure could not give it to another person,that is/was not yr blame,never think it, im sure deeply he loves u too... like u love him despite what he did..just dont ruin yr life looking for his love
remember and live the love of the ones who show u it

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You dont have to be here, you know that right?

You need to talk to a psychologist. We are not.
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You need to talk to a psychologist. We are not.
I know you guys are not, i dont expect you guys to, really i needed to let it out somewhere, so why not here
Im still looking for one, its hard because most of the doctors are very picky, and its sad because i do have issues that i need to fix but some doctors might not see this and others things that i have are an issue which is total BS, but hopefully i will find one soon.

@Betty Dont worry hun, i understand
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i hate psychologists, imo mtf is one of the best places possible to go for variety of opinions. and more real because they dont feel mysterious aura or goals are needed to maintain business



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i hate psychologists, imo mtf is one of the best places possible to go for variety of opinions. and more real because they dont feel mysterious aura or goals are needed to maintain business
One of your rare posts I agree with, Seeking an opinion of unpaid and anonymous public can be the best way to get a true solution. Psychologists only say what you want to hear because they get paid $150 per hour. A public opinion will always include cruel and unforgiving responses because they don't care about the emotional damage or have a paycheck to look forward to.
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