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View Poll Results: Sex/children before marriage, how you feel?
Sex and a child is fine before marriage 9 27.27%
Sex before is okay, child should wait till married 7 21.21%
Neither is okay, both should wait for marriage to happen 6 18.18%
I dont care 4 12.12%
Sex before marriage is not okay, but a child before marriage is 6 18.18%
Other 1 3.03%
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post #16 of 38 (permalink) Old 02-13-2012, 11:36 PM Thread Starter
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Poll option #5 "Sex before marriage is not okay, but a child before marriage is".

In fairness this could mean adoption or artificial insemination. Nowadays, virgins can give birth.
Could also mean if the woman or man had a child from a previous relationship or marriage, and they were a solo parent (or the other parent was nowhere to be found) and you sort of took on that child as your couples own child.

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Sex is fine but cuddling before marriage is definitely not on IMO.

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"Sex before marriage is not okay, but a child before marriage is"

How does this option make sense?

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"Sex before marriage is not okay, but a child before marriage is"

How does this option make sense?
artificial insemination.
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Option 5

I'm for option 2 though.

I'm almost 19 and I last year had sex with the guy that I've been in a relationship for 4 years and that I truly love more than anyone

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I have ignored the poll . The institution of marriage has failed and continues to fail. You can just have a long term partner without getting married. If you want to get married then that is fine also. Sex before marriage is fine as long as young people take the right protective measures. Educating young people about STIs and unplanned pregnancies is very important.
Some people are saying you will go to hell if you have sex before marriage .
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Definitely wrong. I hope all of you that have had sex before marriage go and rot in hell.

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"Sex before marriage is not okay, but a child before marriage is"

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2003 hardly ever makes sense with his threads.

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Re: Sex before marriage/children before marriage

Where is another option-- sex before marriage is a MUST? And I mean it. Stupid to get married before having sex with that person. Marriage is too important and should be taken seriously.

With children it is not that clear. I personally think children should come first too. Young parents are better, way better! Old parents suck, they ruin children's self-esteem and never let children to have fun! At the same time, young people tend to make more mistakes with marriage. So, it usually works better when you have a child while you are young but get married when you are mature.
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Re: Sex before marriage/children before marriage

What's the definition of marriage here? Does it include common-law marriage? You'll have to be more specific before I can vote. If you mean religious ceremony, then 1, if you mean common-law marriage then it's probably a good idea to stick together after having a child, the alternative seems stupid - unless of course you want to be a single parent.
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Sex before marriage is not okay, but a child before marriage is
How does this work? In-vitro or what?

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Re: Sex before marriage/children before marriage

I voted I don't care. Sex before marriage is OK for me, for some people it may be not. And when it comes to having children, I think the most important thing is a stable relationship. There may be nan-married couples who have a long-lasting relationship and children whereas many marriges end up into a divorce. And I think it's better to have an unmarried couple as parents rather than a divorced couple.
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I think should wait to have children. Two is easer to pay everything the child needs.

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A girl would have to be pretty asexual to get AI before having sex.
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Re: Sex before marriage/children before marriage

Why should people get married in the first place. Why don't we consider other alternatives?
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