There is little accounting for averages in sexual performance, agree or disagree?
I always see people post charts about the countries who have the larger penis sizes etc.
Not so many charts on sexual performance, though google says most men last between 4-6 mins on average.
My point is, isnt it going to matter whom you have been with that dictates your average?
I mean, if a girl has been with 10 guys who only lasted like 4-10 mins, if you come alone and put in 20, youll be a god to her. However, if she had been with 2 or 3 marathon men who lasted an hour, you wont be so impressive. Same deal with penis size.
For me averages are an indicator and nothing more.
How do you see it?
I know us guys put ourselves in this position by going on and on about penis size etc. We contribute to the paranoia with our exagerations and lies no doubt.
I am confident and dont worry toooo much, but I just wonder how ladies and gents see this.
I also think that in the same way as magazines and celebrities make women feel they need to obtain an unrealistic body image, pornographic films give males (and females) a totally unrealistic expectation of what sex should be like.
Yes, porn can be shot in multiple sessions, but that doesnt matter. They are professionals. They should be good at it. People cant and shouldnt compare themselves to it. But I think we do sometimes. That would be like watching a NFL player kick a 60 yard place kick, and you being gutted cause you can "only" kick one from 35 yards, which is still more than most could do.
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