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View Poll Results: Which sex has it "easier"?
Men definately have it easier! 10 37.04%
Women have it easier! 7 25.93%
I really think its about the same. 10 37.04%
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Sex is never easy. It's hard work but with a big payoff.

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Fuck me Bilbo is like the encyclopedia of sex.

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I think when it comes to dating, women have it easier. They only need to wait to get approached and choose from all the different men without doing much.
only valid for pretty girls

ugly girls probly have it pretty rough.


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Depends on the country. Difficult to judge on a worldwide basis, since men and women are treated differently around the world, and the intricacies of just being male or female is only scratching the surface.

I'll just throw in the opinion and stick with it. Generally, Women have it slightly easier than Men in the more developed countries. Generally, Women have it tougher than Men in the less developed countries.

From personal experience, Women have it the toughest in certain areas of Asia (and Africa probably, though I know less about this).
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only valid for pretty girls

ugly girls probly have it pretty rough.

I don't know I think Bilbo might be right on this one.

If an 'ugly' girl really wants to have sex she can take home at least 10 guys from a club. If an 'ugly' guy wants to have sex I don't think he can take a girl home that easily.

I also think girls who are too pretty, aren't really approached much by guys because much guys already think she is out of his league.


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I don't know I think Bilbo might be right on this one.

If an 'ugly' girl really wants to have sex she can take home at least 10 guys from a club. If an 'ugly' guy wants to have sex I don't think he can take a girl home that easily.
how ugly?

in general, ugly men tend to have it easier than ugly women because women tend to give more importance to personality than looks whereas it's more like the opposite with men (compared to chicks at least).

a lot of people seem to think this means that men are more shallow. yet, i don't see it like that at all

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how ugly?

in general, ugly men tend to have it easier than ugly women because women tend to give more importance to personality than looks whereas it's more like the opposite (compared to chicks at least).
Yeah well amigo you are right about that one. Girls do care for personality more than guys.

I don't know where to draw the line when it comes to ugly

Let's say from 1-10. A girl in the range of 4-7 gets more nookie if she wants to in my opinion.


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I also think girls who are too pretty, aren't really approached much by guys because much guys already think she is out of his league.
a lot of people seem to think this but i don't...

last year i started talking to who probably is the prettiest girl i've ever seen in my life. perfect body, big eyes and a face that was so innocent and beautiful you'd feel trapped. all of my mates thought she was incredibly good looking too. i tried subtly to get to know her and perhaps get a date but apparently she wasn't interested cause she didn't respond with interest to my messages. last i knew from her was that she has a boyfriend. there are pics of 2 together on facebook. dude isn't ugly but he is'nt good looking either. just a regular guy.

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Yeah well amigo you are right about that one. Girls do care for personality more than guys.

I don't know where to draw the line when it comes to ugly

Let's say from 1-10. A girl in the range of 4-7 gets more nookie if she wants to in my opinion.
if she wants to, probably.


a random slightly drunk man at a club could easily hook up with a girl in that range (so to speak of lol) but i do think that when it comes to relationships ugly girls have it more difficult

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Trying to pick up a broad in a club with no guarantee of sex after wasting money buying her drinks is stupid. Just get a hooker, at least then you're both honest what you're really after.
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Trying to pick up a broad in a club with no guarantee of sex after wasting money buying her drinks is stupid. Just get a hooker, at least then you're both honest what you're really after.
Where is the passionate love making, mate

In that department women have it easier than men. Having sex for money.


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Trying to pick up a broad in a club with no guarantee of sex after wasting money buying her drinks is stupid. Just get a hooker, at least then you're both honest what you're really after.
i've already heard this analysis in a cost/benefit perspective from some of my friends...

but you're missing the point, imo. it's not about honesty. most men are open enough to recognize that they want to get laid when they go on a night out. however, most men wouldn't go to a hooker. why? i think it's manly because of how degrading it is. in that regard it should be accounted that a great part of picking up girls is about ego. on the other hand, there's nothing to be proud about having sex with a hooker...

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I don't know I think Bilbo might be right on this one.

If an 'ugly' girl really wants to have sex she can take home at least 10 guys from a club. If an 'ugly' guy wants to have sex I don't think he can take a girl home that easily.

I also think girls who are too pretty, aren't really approached much by guys because much guys already think she is out of his league.
It's funny I don't agree with Bilbo, but I totally agree with what you said. The bolt part it's so true. The very few times I've been with girls out of league, I never even try cause I would never think that I had a chance. It was them that came to me.

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i've already heard this analysis in a cost/benefit perspective from some of my friends...

but you're missing the point, imo. it's not about honesty. most men are open enough to recognize that they want to get laid when they go on a night out. however, most men wouldn't go to a hooker. why? i think it's manly because of how degrading it is. in that regard it should be accounted that a great part of picking up girls is about ego. on the other hand, there's nothing to be proud about having sex with a hooker...
Fucking a prostitute is only degrading if you abide by social norms and care about peer pressure. It's like drinking alone. Most people will tell you that drinking is strictly a social thing, but a lot of people enjoy a few shots when they're alone in front of TV, they just don't want to admit it, lest they appear to be a "loser" in front of their friends.

Ego and pride are silly things, same as honor, chivalry and all the other nonsense we've read in fairy tales when we were kids. In my view someone who simply pays money to fuck a hooker (or a "working lady" as we call them in AU) is far more honest about his intentions than someone who goes to a club to try to pick up someone for the same purpose. What's the point? Boasting to your friends later on that you're a "player"? I don't get it.
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i've already heard this analysis in a cost/benefit perspective from some of my friends...

but you're missing the point, imo. it's not about honesty. most men are open enough to recognize that they want to get laid when they go on a night out. however, most men wouldn't go to a hooker. why? i think it's manly because of how degrading it is. in that regard it should be accounted that a great part of picking up girls is about ego. on the other hand, there's nothing to be proud about having sex with a hooker...
This. Plus there is no exciting for most of the guys when they think they are having sex with a hooker. They will always think that 30 minutes earlier she was having sex with other guy, and 30 minutes after she was having sex again. At least I would think this way.

If they are paying drinks to a girl, trying to get her into bedm and in the end having their mission accomplished it's way more exciting and better for your ego, because you will think that your flirting skills are still on-fire. And you will never see the other girl as a hooker. Just a normal girl that wants to have fun like you.

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Fucking a prostitute is only degrading if you abide by social norms and care about peer pressure. It's like drinking alone. Most people will tell you that drinking is strictly a social thing, but a lot of people enjoy a few shots when they're alone in front of TV, they just don't want to admit it, lest they appear to be a "loser" in front of their friends.

Ego and pride are silly things, same as honor, chivalry and all the other nonsense we've read in fairy tales when we were kids. In my view someone who simply pays money to fuck a hooker (or a "working lady" as we call them in AU) is far more honest about his intentions than someone who goes to a club to try to pick up someone for the same purpose. What's the point? Boasting to your friends later on that you're a "player"? I don't get it.

Maybe you're right, but you must understand people live in a society. Without social norms, world would going into colapse. It's impossible for every single human being in the world to completely forgot about all social norms. Even if you don't realise, you follow that norms as a pattern in every single day, in every single action.

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