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The one that got away...

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The one that got away. We all know the feeling. We know who she was. You two were perfect for each other. But it just didn't work out. Maybe it wasn't the right time, etc.

Mine is a Cuban beauty from back in college. My God. She was everything I wanted in a woman. Smart, witty, loyal, honest, hard working, she worked and bought her own car, very fiery and fiesty :aplot:, she was a dancer too. Not a dancer dancer, like a strip club, but a regular girl who knew how to dance. As a result, her body was bangin. We had that spark, you know? It was almost overwhelming. I knew she could feel it too. I asked her one time what he favorite sports were. Her first response? "Tennis ;)"

She had these eyes that I could just look into all day. She was everything I could ever want. But she really wanted to be a Mom. She wanted to have a baby. But she was only 20! "Don't you want to live your 20's at all?" I asked. She explained to me how her mom had her young and thus the two were really close. She also had a younger sister she loved to take care of. As her younger sister got older, her yearning for a person to take care of heightened. Since her mom had her young, she didn't really think it was too far out of the ordinary :shrug:

Unfortunately that was a deal breaker and she broke up with me. I was also guilty of talking to other girls, true, so some of the blame is also mine, but still I never went far, I never even kissed another girl in the short time I was with her. It was a combination of things that led to the break up, really.

But she was perfect otherwise. I wish I had the balls to tell her I wanted to have kids with her but later on in life, but I was so heartbroken when she broke up with me that I could barely say a word before she walked away in tears. :awww:

She is the one that got away. I don't have many regrets in life, but this one. I do hope I see her again, to try to fix this all, but, you know, life goes on... :shrug:

Surely I am not the only one. Has anyone else lost that perfect someone?
 
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#3 ·
My only regret is that she never existed.
 
#98 ·
Ah, a perfect post, wish I could +rep you again. I have also never met that "perfect woman" - the one that shared my ideas, philosophies and morals. Unfortunately, these days, every girl expects to be pampered and constantly expects meaningless phrases like "I love you" every 5 minutes. It would also help if a girl could avoid using the world "like" in every sentence.
 
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#5 ·
I asked her one time what he favorite sports were. Her first response? "Tennis ;)"
That was probably the moment to slip on the ring and agree to everything she requested.
 
#8 ·
I guess so :spit:

Why didn't you want to have kids at that point? Any specific reason?
I am way too young and broke. I want to have kids in my 30's when I am already settled financially, you know? Having them now would be a bad idea, I believe, when we were so young and not sure what we want out of life, plus the lack of money. :shrug:

Maybe we both need a few years to mature and find ourselves.
 
#7 ·
i have let several get away. i was seeing this beauty that i might have already told you about. she was a ballerina and the most beautiful girl in the college a few years back. somehow we hooked up and stayed together for 3 years. well we hooked up because she came after me and i managed to make all the right moves to get her attention.

i had more women come after me when i was seeing alisa than i can shake a stick at. i should have capitalized on some of those opportunities.
 
#11 ·
Sexcapades are cool. Protection is cooler.
 
#20 ·
I personally believe almost the entire story.. The only part that stumped me was that she broke up with him.
 
#18 ·
Having a son at 16 must take its toll.
 
#32 ·
Gotta own up here. That story from 06 is bullshit. Not sure why I made it up. Attention? Sympathy? Playing with people's emotions? I was a fucked up little kid, to be honest.
 
#33 ·
:eek: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Never seen that before. Disturbing and hilarious.
And he is criticizing Sapeod :spit:

Many thanks to Slokid for the ownage of the year.
 
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#48 ·
Memory of an elephant, not hard to forget, when you're reminded of that post each time he starts one of his trademark threads. :p
This is true, you're right.

That 06 post has me knocked back, really. I wonder what was going through my mind when I posted that. At times, I look at my posts from years past and see how I've changed, but shit. As I read it now, I really got some people going, I feel like shit now. What was I thinking? Do I have no remorse? Jesus.

EDIT: Get it all out, folks.
TBH I smelt it was bullshit straight away when you posted that. :lol: And I wasn't the only one:
http://www.menstennisforums.com/showpost.php?p=4018198&postcount=258
 
#44 ·
that's nasty Jon

making up the death of a 2 year old baby?

 
#52 ·
My oh my, it must be skeleton in the closet day for me. I think that one was in one of the perv threads many years ago, have a look.

I wonder just how fucked up mentally I was when I was a teen.
 
#54 ·
now you gotta spill it all out

we'll post your threads starting with a story of your life one by one and you'll tell us truth or false
 
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