So there's this girl who I've been really good friends, probably my best friend that's a girl, for at least 4-5 years. I've had a few girlfriends, a lot of hookups, etc. in that time period and she's the only girl I've felt comfortable enough to confide in about relationships and personal problems. Lately, I feel like she's getting jealous when I get with other girls and I try to avoid hearing about her getting with other guys...there's definitely a physical attraction and I know she wants me...but I don't want to make a move because I value our friendship too much to ruin it over a few hookups. Anyone ever been in a situation like this?
I'm in pretty much the same situation right now as well mate. The difference with me is that I met this girl at uni and now the year has finished and she's now on the other side of the country. To me it sounds that you've definitely got feelings for her if you don't like hearing about other dudes she's got with. Of course it's hard to predict if it will work out in the long run and you don't want to do anything that puts your friendship in jeopardy. To me, at the end of the day, I like to look at things plain and simple... black and white... She likes you, you like here... give it a go, you only live once
That's what I wish I did before summer break this year... I just didn't want to make things weird over the holidays before we see each other next year...