Is your culture not accepting of gay men?
you're in sydney, no...? if so, is maybe in the top 2 most tolerant cities in the southern hemishpere so unless you're family bloodlines are 75% bogan or more then you should be alright i'd say, despite any gruff exterior... old man says 'wtf?!?' and chucks a wobbly?? Answer: f*** it, get a one year visa to Whoknowsfukwhere, go travelling... the other option is to be constantly pissed off complaining to mtf about a severe lack of bum fun...
Not at all
I live near the mining region in ~central QLD. Not many gay role models up here, I think I personally know one gay teacher and one gay chef, and two guys I went to school with. That's all I personally know, not even acquaintances though. No one in my extended family has come out as gay and I have a BIG family. I may be a pioneer
Thanks alot. No action yet but I'm on edge every time I'm around my brother and father. I don't know if my mum will tell me when she tells them. I'm scared but really excited. It's been torture, I've completely shut myself off from society and the pressure to hook up with some girl. All this tension could soon be behind me. I'm just excited. All I can picture is me putting something about it on facebook (after my family all know) and getting like 200 likes.
That would make me feel so good and accepted and comfortable the next time I see everyone. Maybe I'm being too optimistic. Can you change sexual preference on your facebook? - and will it come up on everyone elses? Just askin'...