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post #16 of 56 (permalink) Old 10-12-2011, 05:39 PM
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Re: How do you personally deal with loneliness?

I cant think in shit now because I am just thinking about all the fun I will be losing without my ex-girlfriend that I had for five months now
However, we cant date someone only for the fun.
I think I lost 80% of my distractions and happy moments of the last 5 months right now... time to boost my life , dare I say.
No more electronic parties, no more movies no more meeting other people as a couple, no more pizzas at night, no more taking care of each other, no more speaking about economics and jack shit.
I am fucked hahaha. I should try to make women believe I want to marry them next time. But then again it always bothered me.

Sometimes men and women should just play this kind of "i like you never will leave you" game to try to put more perspective and context in their lifes and ight loneliness, but you goota be also happy and filled with joy when single and also without many friends.

I live in this town now for less than 2 years, I dont plan to keep living n here so I dont have too many close friends, but you gotta feel you have a whole world inside yourself, feeding your spiritual, mental and physical world properly without forgeting to be nice to the people and trying to make new friends.

There is no mistery in that.

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As others have said, you have to do what feels good to you. You have to be comfortable with who you are as a person. You have to be perfectly content to be alone and entertain yourself and not feel bored.

Wanting and needing someone else to fulfill you does nothing but drive other people away.

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As others have said, you have to do what feels good to you. You have to be comfortable with who you are as a person. You have to be perfectly content to be alone and entertain yourself and not feel bored.

Wanting and needing someone else to fulfill you does nothing but drive other people away.

You have to love and enjoy yourself.
Most important is to know, most ppl never really get to grasp their self.
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Re: How do you personally deal with loneliness?

Don't feel weak about it, other that are in a relationship (or relationshit) are in some way dependant so enjoy the freedom and do what make you happy regardless of what people think.

I know that when family members ask me about it, it annoys the crap out of me, i try to keep my convictions.
Music and fitness are my main occupations as well as entertainment (i mean by watching) such as tennis and other sports.

Keep the belief, it may come sooner or later..

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play GTA on my playstation, tennis & snooker on my pc and Darts in my home

having the time of my life
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like Bo Derek
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Re: How do you personally deal with loneliness?

I try not to be an attention seeking drama queen. I'd suggest quite a few people on this board should try that method out.

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Re: How do you personally deal with loneliness?

2003, if you have persistent feelings of loneliness, you may suffer from depression.
chicks don't dig needy, depressed guys so get help or do something fun and social when you're feeling lonely.

What is the real game?
It is a game in which the heart is entertained,
the game in which you are entertained.
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Re: How do you personally deal with loneliness?

Quite easily: Jack Daniels followed by video games.
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Pick a top tennis player and whenever they win pretend like it was you winning. You'll feel accomplished, in shape, and popular, all without having to actually be any of those things. If them losing makes you depressed just be a gloryhunter or Fedal who likes everybody as long as they're winning. This is the real reason people post on MTF
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