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Okay so I've been chatting to this guy on Gaydar all weekend, looks hot, seems nice and lives close by. So earlier I went round his house and he looks hardly anything like his pictures (lost count of how many times thats happend ) and he starts talking about how lonely he is and how he had loads of therapy and is obsessive. Anyway long story short I felt pressured in to having sex with him and thought I should just get it over with. Half way through he starts talking about Dennis Neilson and other serial killers and how he can identify with them - then he says he doesn't want to let me go!!! By now i'm freaking out (and any hope of an erection was looooong gone), so I was like 'I'm not feeling too good maybe I should go and we can meet up again another time' but he didn't listen and held me down. I felt totally trapped and no one knew where I was either (again stupid i know). After a while it was over and I got dressed and practically ran out of the house LMAO.

Edit: His house was bare - like no one lived there. Honestly the more I think about it the more it's freaking me out now. At least he doesn't know where I live. He also seemed to enjoy causing me pain too...

Edit 2: For some reason he insisted on showing me his garden - which I really didn't care about but I said okay fine I'll look - it was all newly laid block paving. I may send an anonymous tip to the police to look for bodies under there. What a total freak.

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... LOL. I find it strange that in this day and age of Internet dating people actually meet at non-neutral venues. I'd never meet someone if it wasn't in a somewhat public and/or populated place. It's like when my current bf tells me he met this guy from the Internet and the guy literally throttled him.

To be fair, I don't look much like my picture I have up on gaydar either, but that's just what 5 years do to you, you know. :P
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... LOL. I find it strange that in this day and age of Internet dating people actually meet at non-neutral venues. I'd never meet someone if it wasn't in a somewhat public and/or populated place. It's like when my current bf tells me he met this guy from the Internet and the guy literally throttled him.

To be fair, I don't look much like my picture I have up on gaydar either, but that's just what 5 years do to you, you know. :P
To be fair though, I've had some excellent shags from meeting guys online - plus it's easy if you've got the horn
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Gay dating sites are dangerous.
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Oh Lord If I were you I would just inform the police or something for sure.
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Okay so I've been chatting to this guy on Gaydar all weekend, looks hot, seems nice and lives close by. So earlier I went round his house and he looks hardly anything like his pictures (lost count of how many times thats happend ) and he starts talking about how lonely he is and how he had loads of therapy and is obsessive. Anyway long story short I felt pressured in to having sex with him and thought I should just get it over with. Half way through he starts talking about Dennis Neilson and other serial killers and how he can identify with them - then he says he doesn't want to let me go!!! By now i'm freaking out (and any hope of an erection was looooong gone), so I was like 'I'm not feeling too good maybe I should go and we can meet up again another time' but he didn't listen can held me down. I felt totally trapped and no one knew where I was either (again stupid i know). After a while it was over and I got dressed and practically ran out of the house LMAO.

Edit: His house was bare - like no one lived there. Honestly the more I think about it the more it's freaking me out now. At least he doesn't know where I live. He also seemed to enjoy causing me pain too...

Edit 2: For some reason he insisted on showing me his garden - which I really didn't care about but I said okay fine I'll look - it was all newly laid block paving. I may send an anonymous tip to the police to look for bodies under there. What a total freak.
Just be thankful he didn't have an alsatian.
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My anus is a wreck, it's painful when stuff comes out let alone when stuff gets rammed in.


that wasn't a pretty picture there...

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I'm sorry this happened to you

It's also quite scary to read as well, because your story is similar to stories of many others using these chat sites, especially gay men. Gay sex lines aren't really safe. A lot of perverts, a lot of gay bashers identifying as gay to lure gay men to rob and beat (that happens pretty often), a lot of people lie about their age and weight. At least half the men are typically closeted and married with a woman (or guy). A lot of drug addicts and a lot of rent boys either looking for money, or end up sticking you up and/or robbing you for money. Then the whole fact many of them lie about their disease situation.

I always try to steer clear of the sex sites because a good 75% of them are either spammers, sex workers or unfuckable. I let the guys make the first move on me, I never make first moves on chat sites, because I want to see the goods and what a guy is about before ever getting with 'em.
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Guuurl you betta watch yo weave cuz he just might snatch it.

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But seriously, if you're going to meet up with a guy, next time do it in a public place and never, I mean N E V E R put out on the first date.

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Okay so I've been chatting to this guy on Gaydar all weekend, looks hot, seems nice and lives close by. So earlier I went round his house and he looks hardly anything like his pictures (lost count of how many times thats happend ) and he starts talking about how lonely he is and how he had loads of therapy and is obsessive. Anyway long story short I felt pressured in to having sex with him and thought I should just get it over with. Half way through he starts talking about Dennis Neilson and other serial killers and how he can identify with them - then he says he doesn't want to let me go!!! By now i'm freaking out (and any hope of an erection was looooong gone), so I was like 'I'm not feeling too good maybe I should go and we can meet up again another time' but he didn't listen and held me down. I felt totally trapped and no one knew where I was either (again stupid i know). After a while it was over and I got dressed and practically ran out of the house LMAO.

Edit: His house was bare - like no one lived there. Honestly the more I think about it the more it's freaking me out now. At least he doesn't know where I live. He also seemed to enjoy causing me pain too...

Edit 2: For some reason he insisted on showing me his garden - which I really didn't care about but I said okay fine I'll look - it was all newly laid block paving. I may send an anonymous tip to the police to look for bodies under there. What a total freak.
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Casual encounters on non-neutral sites are not a choice for me since ages. Saunas rule

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