Yeah I've been in a similar thing quite recently. I loved this girl a few years ago so much, stayed with her, did everything with her, I absolutely loved her! One day she told me she was leaving though and well I didn't really think much of it as I thought she would come back, but she didn't. I tried looking for her the last few years but couldn't and I thought maybe she was dead or something but I couldn't accept it as I still had feelings. Then I just don't know, I moved on with someone else and my feelings stopped but I still wanted to know where she was and stuff. Finally not long ago I found a way to find her mum and I managed to get through to the girl like that and we met up for a few days and it turned out she went to rehab and stuff and told me stuff like that if she had told me I would have dumped her and all that crap, but even as she was telling me about her life and stuff the last few years I didn't really care, I just felt nothing for her. Then after a few days she told me she still loved me and for some reason I was telling myself I did as well but in the end I couldn't live pretending I loved her and was honest and said I didn't and that was that really. Always thought if I saw her again maybe I would love her, but it wasn't the case.
Wild, ain't it? This is the same thing I was going through, Jase.
Never would have thought I'd feel this way about this girl.
Crazy how shit can change from being totally ga-ga about a girl and now feeling nothing.
Once I read for how long people stay in the "crush" state: up to two years
Heard it's chemistry
Might be an answer.
When we have a crush we are just blinded and we think we love. Later it's easier to be more objective.
Hmmm, interesting analysis, Nathii