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Bolar needs your help!!!

That's right folks.

Bolar, Australia's precious man needs advice.

I've been recently seeing an older lady. She's 53. Anyway, things have been great. The company is good, the sex is good, everything is good and has been good for the past 3 months.

It's been that good that she asked the question that I didn't want to hear. She asked if I could move in permanently as I'm looking for a place to live.

Now, if my family found out about this, they would dissown me as she's old enough to be my mother and there is no way I can live with her because they will find out. Again, I don't want to ditch her because we're both enjoying each other.

So Bolar is in a dilemma. To stop seeing her or move in with her? Help?!?!
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If she makes you happy stay with her

PS: Don't tell her about your drinking habits, you know what I mean, right?
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If she makes you happy stay with her

PS: Don't tell her about your drinking habits, you know what I mean, right?
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MTF sure has it's share of casanovas.

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It isn't your family's business, do as you please.
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Good point Orangehat. Interesting.

The thing that is worrying me is she knows and I made it perfectly clear that this was a casual thing. More like sex buddies. However, she seems to now think it's something more when it clearly isn't.

Think I will cut all ties. There are other women out there. I'm 27, I'm at uni. I don't want to be attached at the moment.
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Be honest with her, she's old enough to understand .

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Be honest with her, she's old enough to understand .
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Be honest with her, she's old enough to understand .
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Tell her you like sex and company but don't want the relationship be official. And let her make decision. After all, she has more to lose
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Who cares what your family thinks? You do what you want.


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Well I went out with her for lunch today and made it perfectly clear. She wants something more and wouldn't budge so I told her that's it. We're not seeing each other anymore.
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and that's how its done...

bolar... winning...!

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Bolar just lost a GILF.
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Bolar just lost a GILF.
There will be another one.
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Well I went out with her for lunch today and made it perfectly clear. She wants something more and wouldn't budge so I told her that's it. We're not seeing each other anymore.
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