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View Poll Results: Does love rule over any sensible age gap? Is age just a number?
Yes, love comes out on top. 11 24.44%
No. People should only date very close to their age. 9 20.00%
As long as it confines to the laws of sexual consent, any age gap is fine. 25 55.56%
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post #46 of 115 (permalink) Old 11-11-2010, 06:33 PM
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Interesting thread but I firmly believe that love has no barrier as long as the concerned people involved in a relationship both mutually agree on it, love each other and are happy with the way things are going on. If both of them are happy, and both are adults, then there shouldn't be any issues.

Age is not something I would personally consider while seeking a relationship with a person. I know some who are in their 40's and the other half is in their 20's and they have been living happily for many years now. I don't find it as a hindrance as long as you love each other (which is what is most important in these aspects).
I agree with you HarryMan however there is the issue of children to consider. If the man is younger by 20 years, he either must have no interest in having children, be okay with helping raise his partner's children....or may have children of his own. If a middle-aged woman is fortunate enough to find herself in that situation then what you say stands. Easier said than done, however. There is no question that it works more often when the man is the older of the two.
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Who owned whom little girl? You've been online all day but you ran with your tail between your legs like the little girl you are you got owned so hard.

You're deluded again like always . You think you have found a playmate and you open your mouth again. From now on be very careful what you say. I own you and your past and future playmates now and forever and I've been very VERY nice until now so be very careful when you make up your next lie.
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How old are you? (not a rhetorical question)
None of your business.....

I'm not telling anything about myself to a faking lying joke like you...
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I love a 38yo and I can't help how I feel

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a lot of it is down to where you are in your life and what you want from it, not how old you both are.

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I'm definitely not 38

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What a guy!

Posts like this are some of the strongest ACC campaigning I have ever seen from you. What an absolutely vile thing to say.

You ought to be ashamed of yourself.
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affirmative general jolan.
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Well, we went out for drinks a couple of times. Caught up every now and then for coffee on her lunch breaks at work. She was divorced. Went back to her place every now and then. After a few times, I then made the move, she rejected it and didn't want to do it incase her teenage son came home. Then after that I thought it wasn't worth it.



What's wrong with it? I hooked up with a older lady in her 40's not that long ago just to try and get her daughter in the sack or have them both at once. Went out a few times. I managed to get a head job from her but nothing more ever came of it. We keep in contact, but I speak to her daughter more. Seeing if I can get her daughter in the sack eventually.

Past relationships I haven't been able to win the girl's mother over. So I tried a different approach of winning her over in other ways. I've won her over which means if I get with her daughter, she will accept it. See if the plan will work.




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You are officially the dirtiest fucker I know

Still want the girl who refused my Mostache? Shes all yours!
Yeah. She in Melbourne?
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Far from it.
i apologise for any offence mate... i am a reformed redneck from nsw, but i'd still probably be considered a bogan... i wrongly assumed you were a bogan cos whenever i read your posts you sound exactly like a couple of my mates back home... i also remember something about you hangin out in geelong, which is a pretty bogan thing to do...

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Boganery rules!
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applicable subject for me. Pleasantly surprised by the responses.
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Re: Age gaps in relationships, does love rule all or must there be an absolute limit?

Not a problem as long as he isn't 13 or 14, unless the other party is 16 or 17.

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i apologise for any offence mate... i am a reformed redneck from nsw, but i'd still probably be considered a bogan... i wrongly assumed you were a bogan cos whenever i read your posts you sound exactly like a couple of my mates back home... i also remember something about you hangin out in geelong, which is a pretty bogan thing to do...

keep the dream alive anyways man...
No offence taken.

I grew up in NSW. I have a NSW accent. So perhaps I am a Bogan or redneck or whatever you could call me.

I was only hanging out in Geelong to get some action from my GF at the time. The only time I would go to a place like that was if I was getting sex.
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