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What to say when a girl says she "misses you"

I've been struggling with this recently.

3 times in as many months, a girl has told me that she misses me. And in all 3 cases, I didn't really miss the girl back, so I couldn't tell them that, ya feel me?

Instead, I told the first girl I kinda sorta missed her too, but that she probably missed me more than I missed her. Backfire! Then she went on this rant about how she was over me blah blah blah.

The second girl, I told her straight up that I wasn't gonna answer whether or not I missed her back because it was a trick female question, and she got pissed off too.

The third girl, when she told me she missed me, I just said "Awwwww!".

In all 3 cases, I didn't know what to say, and what I did end up saying was , but true

So the question to the guys is, what do you say to a girl that says she misses you?

And to the ladies, what do you expect a guy to say when you say you miss him?

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Re: What to say when a girl says she "misses you"

only a teenage girl could start this thread, but you claim to be 20



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Re: What to say when a girl says she "misses you"

Come on Snoo, help me out here.

Think about the last time you said to a guy "I miss you", what were you really saying?

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Re: What to say when a girl says she "misses you"

if it's a just-a-friend-friend it means "gosh i haven't seen you for so long! i forgot how much fun it is to hang out with you! let's hang out more often! "

if it's like, a -friend it means "i wish you would spend more time with me/pay more attention to me/call me more "

if she's whining or pulling a pouty face when she says it, it means the second thing

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Re: What to say when a girl says she "misses you"

Be honest, if she over reacts it's a sign to move on.
Just don't think you can try and fuck her ever again.

This whole thing seems more like..."How do i string a girl along to get what i want but not piss her off."


The whole gamesmanship of relationships that both sides play is disgusting it is old, moldy & tired.

Do what you feel.


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if it's a just-a-friend-friend it means "gosh i haven't seen you for so long! i forgot how much fun it is to hang out with you! let's hang out more often! "

if it's like, a -friend it means "i wish you would spend more time with me/pay more attention to me/call me more "

if she's whining or pulling a pouty face when she says it, it means the second thing

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Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn :P

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if it's a just-a-friend-friend it means "gosh i haven't seen you for so long! i forgot how much fun it is to hang out with you! let's hang out more often! "

if it's like, a -friend it means "i wish you would spend more time with me/pay more attention to me/call me more "

if she's whining or pulling a pouty face when she says it, it means the second thing

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The question is why you didnt missed the girl? Thats probably because you don´t like them enough to get serious with her. So say- Yeah I mssed you too babe if you want to gam her again or just say- Myself. Not really- if you think you can discard her. The moment you feel you are missing a girl, is the moment you finally might be liking someone for real.

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Re: What to say when a girl says she "misses you"

Weird question Jonathan...

If someone tells you they miss you and you don't correspond, obviously they're going to feel disappointed.

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"Thank you"

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"If I missed you too we would sex more often"

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The 1st step would be to not litter out beloved forum with your manipulative and self-pushing threads about women.

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if it's a just-a-friend-friend it means "gosh i haven't seen you for so long! i forgot how much fun it is to hang out with you! let's hang out more often! "

if it's like, a -friend it means "i wish you would spend more time with me/pay more attention to me/call me more "

if she's whining or pulling a pouty face when she says it, it means the second thing

doesn't roger federer have the most beautiful hair?
This helps. Thanks for the clear explanation, Snoo.

And yes, Roger's hair is pretty much perfect.

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Be honest, if she over reacts it's a sign to move on.
Just don't think you can try and fuck her ever again.

This whole thing seems more like..."How do i string a girl along to get what i want but not piss her off."


The whole gamesmanship of relationships that both sides play is disgusting it is old, moldy & tired.

Do what you feel.

Not really

You make it seem like I'm some sort of hound dog that just goes around and has his fun and doesn't give a shit, I've got feelings too

I dunno. I guess I think that when a girl says she misses me, she's just testing me to see how I feel about her. Whether she really misses me or not is irrelevant.

I agree with the gamesmanship bullshit, but you have to admit women do their fair share of it too.

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The question is why you didnt missed the girl? Thats probably because you don´t like them enough to get serious with her.
I guess I'm just a heartbreaker. Not that I enjoy it.

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So say- Yeah I mssed you too babe if you want to gam her again or just say- Myself. Not really- if you think you can discard her. The moment you feel you are missing a girl, is the moment you finally might be liking someone for real.
Liking someone for real and not just in it for the gam?

To be honest, I don't think I've legitly "missed" a girl, at least in the way the girls do I. I love women, but I just don't get attached

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Weird question Jonathan...

If someone tells you they miss you and you don't correspond, obviously they're going to feel disappointed.
Yeah, that's true.

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The 1st step would be to not litter out beloved forum with your manipulative and self-pushing threads about women.
Kindly fuck off, good sir. Go back to GM.

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Re: What to say when a girl says she "misses you"

I don't get all this subtext stuff. If I say I miss someone it just means I miss them??

If you believe everything that is said to you has some hidden meaning you'd just go mad.

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