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This guy who is in his 30's asked me out and I don't know what to do. He's 21 years older than me and he has kids too. I don't know how to tell him no without hurting his feelings.
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easy tell him u're not a nurse for old man

btw difference of age is a good exuses..

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easy tell him u're not a nurse for old man

btw difference of age is a good exuses..
I don't want to make him feel bad about his age. I also want to remain friends. Do you think it would be OK to tell him.
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yes he'll understand it for sure

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at the end he knows that 21 years are not few...plus a responsability of a kids..c'mon u are all yr life to live..dont fall in his trap hun

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at the end he knows that 21 years are not few...plus a responsability of a kids..c'mon u are all yr life to live..dont fall in his trap hun
OK then I'll tell him. His son is only like 4 years younger than me too.
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wise words good luck!

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Hmmmmm

I have a better plan for him

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Hmmmmm

I have a better plan for him

That's what I thought!

He would be in his forties while you wouldn't even have turned 20 yet.
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This guy who is in his 30's asked me out and I don't know what to do. He's 21 years older than me and he has kids too. I don't know how to tell him no without hurting his feelings.
Tell him the truth. You can't go out with someone purely to prevent hurting their feelings.

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He can't be in his 30s and be 21yrs older than you.
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but nina do u want his friendship?

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Nina is 18

so he can be 39
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18? 39? forget him nina

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why would you want to remain friends with someone like that? there's something wrong with him if he "needs" to hit on teen girls if he's in his 30s, to make it bluntly. i say screw him, you shouldn't be around a guy like that, sorry.
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