You feel lost here because nobody knows you and you don't know where to post to make you friends here. Most of the regulars around here don't answer to newbies here. If you wanna be part of the regulars, this thread may help you to feel you well in the MTF jungle. At my side I'm much more involved into WTAworld but yeah it could be interesting getting involved here by talking with the regulars around here and who know being friend of them. Everyone is welcome in this thread.
Aww don't feel that way. Half the problem is the newbies posting threads that are either nonsense or have been posted 1000000 times before. We all have to start somewhere, but post wherever you feel like, just try and make sure it's a quality post
Player forums are generally very friendly too, so thats a good place to start.