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Straight Male 134 37.22%
Straight Female 117 32.50%
Bi-Curious Male 20 5.56%
Bi-Curious Female 12 3.33%
Gay Male 62 17.22%
Gay Female 6 1.67%
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post #31 of 394 (permalink) Old 05-06-2004, 07:35 AM
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although at first I was offended, I now take it as a compliment when I go to a bar and am hit on by a gay man. They usually turn out to be good friends afterwards, after they are embarassed for making an assumption. Do I look gay or something, because it happens quite often.

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I don't think you 'look' gay. You're just clean cut. But you know, gaydar is pretty spot on I kid, I kid.
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"gaydar"? Lol, I have never heard that used before. Thanks for the reassurance. It is just a bit unnerving how often it happens

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LMAO - Gaydar is a standard term in gay circles.

GAy female here, and i know im not the only one so im wondering where the rest are *Confused*

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playing "YMCA" song in tribute to this thread
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perhaps you should play "YWCA" for our female members as well...
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LOL, never thought of it like that
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I'm not gay, but if I was a guy, I would be! I'm a straight female, and have quite a few gay (male) friends. Last night I was in Kings Cross with a couple of friends (He's DEFINITELY straight,I've sussed it out-yes its the Polish guy).

It's so depressing, to see all these well kept, neatly dressed, clean guys, that are untouchable hehe, for example: Kyan Douglas But I have fun with it.

I must get myself a man, to stop me from checking out all the gay guys in my city
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How do gay people know other gay people are gay?? they say about the "sixth" sense but how??
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I find gay people are great to talk to about if you are having relationship probs etc as they are so neutral and unbiased. Dont know if it works vice verca, what are your views frooty and alfonso? would you talk to me if you were having man trouble?
Well. Let's try. Besides, i want to hear some opinions.

I came out to myself only a few years ago. It has been a slow process. One of my main concerns it's about dating. I'm too vulnerable. For me it's hard to go out and have sex with someone just because the guy is hot. I like to know the human being behind, to talk, to go slowly, etc. As a result, let's say i'm not neither mr. gay sex expert nor mr. always has a man next to him. Do i have to stop being "silly gay guy waiting for the man of his dreams" or do i have to have some fun and in the process i'll find mr. right? Most of few my friends who know i'm gay, heteros and gays, say stop waiting, explore, have fun and go ahead. But that implies sometimes you have to tell lies to people just for fun. Ok, i know that i sound pretty silly but that's the way it is?

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Well you sound a deep person alfonso who wants something serious and special with someone which i admire, i think too much of the "gay scene" (and i hate that phrase) is about nightclubs and wearing the t shirt and a gay club i went to few years back had "boyz!!" on plaque of toilet door, so we are still living in a world where gay people are fighting for straight people to accept their sexuality.

I think half the shit comes from generations of old farts passing down their views and you would hope tat dies out in time.

But I find it disgusting that you cant meet a man and walk confidently hand in hand down a public street and feel safe and be accepted by general public.

I am straight myself but ask lot of questions myself as I am fascinated and enjoy way we are all so different, I had a gay roomate once living away from home a lot older ans was so interseted in whole thing that I kissed him after weeks of him trying to talk me into it and slept with him (no sex) and it confirmed I was straight and anyone who laughs at that or thinks oh my god is very narrow minded and living in shell their family wanted them to.

I am 100% straight but big side of me is pissed off why its 2004 and you still have to hear peoples stupid middle aged fathers telling you joke involving gay people, I have often wished i was gay as I have liked a person so much, their whole being that if i was gay they would make life long happy partner.
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Well. I don't know what to say It's a very beautiful post. Like Madonna says .. "Shouldn't matter who you choose to love"

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agree, but I don't think the real problem is telling jokes about gays or whatever kind of people. I've also told or have heard lots of jokes about gays, blondes, Austrians, mothers in law etc. but just because I'm telling jokes about those people, doesn't automatically mean I'm hating or disrespecting them in real life. That's still a big difference for me, so it's important how you are acting and treating people.

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LOL Tangerine

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Alfonsojose54 knew from the begining the most distinguished warrior out there feels the intense passion for members of the other sex But Alfonsojose54 hopes he can give Conan a big and even a tender 'coz he's such an strong but noble book guardian
*very big and masculine kiss*
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