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I am just starting one. We are going for it. We have known each other for a month and I visited her this weekend for the first time meeting in person. She lives in East Lansing Michigan. 12.5 hour drive. I'm approaching this was optimism cause we both could not be happier right now .
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Yes. If your partner is your intellectual equal and you don't want to let her go, it can definitely work. You can bang other girls on the side to satisfy your physical needs during the time that you're apart.
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Yes. If your partner is your intellectual equal and you don't want to let her go, it can definitely work. You can bang other girls on the side to satisfy your physical needs during the time that you're apart.
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Yes. If your partner is your intellectual equal and you don't want to let her go, it can definitely work. You can bang other girls on the side to satisfy your physical needs during the time that you're apart.
they usually bang other guys as well and once you spent money on them they run

i had bad to horrible experiences and one that was real good... so 90% fail

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Very tough, but not impossible.

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they usually bang other guys as well and once you spent money on them they run

i had bad to horrible experiences and one that was real good... so 90% fail

NEVER for any reason give any money. oh i'm broke and i need for the kids=oldest trick in the book
SO, you had 10 relations and only one worked? If the one was that good, it was worth.

You can try, it really depends on your expectations and needs.
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If it is true love, it can. Otherwise, it cannot.
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Yes. If your partner is your intellectual equal and you don't want to let her go, it can definitely work. You can bang other girls on the side to satisfy your physical needs during the time that you're apart.
Started long distance thing with Italian girl 2 years ago, after like few months ago she moved here and we live together and it works great atm. You just need to be patient like hell and smart, and ofc satisfy your needs until you 2 live start living together or see eachother often, few months w.o sex is hard to handle . No matter how much u think u can love some girl/guy that is 1000 miles away and it works great like that its not easy. Atleast wasnt for me, but it was worth waiting

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Yes. If your partner is your intellectual equal and you don't want to let her go, it can definitely work. You can bang other girls on the side to satisfy your physical needs during the time that you're apart.
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Depends what "long distance" means. If it's the distance from panties to feet, I see no reason it can't work.

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Yes. If your partner is your intellectual equal and you don't want to let her go, it can definitely work. You can bang other girls on the side to satisfy your physical needs during the time that you're apart.
I do not think there is a term Called Intellectual Compatibility between a man and a woman..There is only attraction between them.Intellectual compatibility cant sustain a relationship but attraction can.
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I do not think there is a term Called Intellectual Compatibility between a man and a woman..There is only attraction between them.Intellectual compatibility cant sustain a relationship but attraction can.
Intellectual attraction?

I can't date a guy who's not intellectual, even if he's the hottest guy I've ever seen. I'd just think he's stupid and lose interest after a while.

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Intellectual attraction?

I can't date a guy who's not intellectual, even if he's the hottest guy I've ever seen. I'd just think he's stupid and lose interest after a while.

Well Intellectual Attraction can be misnomer for some Guys who got way too educated but feel the need to impress the Opposite Sex through it. And many a times it does work. I tried it sometimes. For a Girl it might look charming but amongst the Gang of Guys the Guy made a "Fool" out of a Girl. But then again it depends upon the Individuals involved, If its working for them why should others bother.
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